I have this friend, who is strange, but hilariously entertaining from time to time. She calls me ( correction used to call me) over 6 times a day, bugging me with the most random problems and thoughts. She is not smart, all she thinks about in fact in partying and relaxing, but I get a kick out of her constant silly worries, which she used to relay to me like clockwork. It annoyed the crap out of me but she did not have any other friends really, so I wanted to be there for her. However we never really saw each other much, just talked on the phone. SHe was stuck at home most of the time, not because she wanted to but because she had nowhere to go. ANd for some reason she never went with me and my friends... I never figured out why.
Then recently she stopped calling as often and I hear from her three to four times a week at best. At first I found this really refreshing and now I am not sure if I want to still be friends with her. We still never hang out and I just answer her calls out
2006-06-29 06:58:25 · 5 answers · asked by Jackie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
out of habit. Should I try now , all this time later to hang out with her and really become good friends. Or should I just drop it...?
2006-06-29 06:59:04 · update #1
This is a hard one to judge. You will have to weigh the good times to the 6 times a day phone calls - something I would never tolerate.
It's really hard to realize when you have out grown a friend, but it does happen.
If it were me after 3 call in same day, I would have been furious.
You are not her social planner. Move on.
2006-06-29 07:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by june8water 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would still be her friend and find out why she is not talking to you that much if she still asks you qutions then answer them she needs you as a friend and i would go over to her home and got try to take her some were and hopefully she should hang out with you if you do this ever weakend she might be anoing don't just live her there with no friends any more you stay friends with here.
2006-06-29 14:18:12 · answer #2 · answered by kristan a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are your feelings being or communicating with her?
Do you feel like her protecting angel?
Do you need that?
My dear, just think what is good for you! Only then you can become strong and this be able to assist others!
2006-06-30 07:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by soubassakis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to have an opened talk with her...maybe she has problems, but she's afraid to share them with you, for some reason
2006-06-29 14:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by guttrflwr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her out .
2006-06-29 14:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by handsum025 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋