I have been wiht a guy for three years but i dont feel it anymore what is the best way to break up with him?
2006-06-29 06:32:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
be honest.... if you have been with him that long then he deserves the truth of course hell be upset but who wouldnt be it would be better for the both of you if you were completly honest
2006-06-29 06:36:41 · answer #1 · answered by Lexee M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you write him a letter first. Be very open and sincere and try to show him affection and respect within the words. Let him know that you simply don't have the courage to initially break this to him in person. He is someone that has meant so much to you in the past and though this is painful to him, it is also very, very painful to you also. Then suggest that you meet at public place (maybe dinner) at a time you both can possibly handle the situation with dignity and class. Be strong and firm though...if the break is not clean and final, much more heart burn will follow.
2006-06-29 06:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lies, cheaters, even as human beings deserve a lot strong yet merely get undesirable, wondering about how issues became once, and then searching at how the at the instantaneous are. Seeing lonely previous human beings, even as love would not exercising consultation the way it would have, theres a lot that breaks a heart.
2016-10-13 23:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after three years there is no easy way.......just look him in the eyes and tell him i dont feel the love in between us anymore i think is time to move on...you dont have to be in a relationship that does not make you happy anymore just get out at first he will be mad and hate you but at the end he is going to have to understand and even appreciate that you got out and gave him the oportunity for him to find love else where..good luck.
2006-06-29 06:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't feel it.But never over the phone and never online!Three year relationships or logs ones at all should end on good terms so if you ever see them later you can actually talk instead of mug each other.
2006-06-29 06:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by mya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that the feeling is gone.. That is what I did.. I understand exactly what you are going through... I didnt feel happy or comfortable with him anymore.. I had to tell him that exact thought that I had. He didnt understand why but sometimes you dont have to understand to know it is not working.
2006-06-29 06:36:27 · answer #6 · answered by Free & Sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off sooner than later. Just tell him/her that you don't see your relationship ending up as a long term one, but that you would still like to be friends.
2006-06-29 06:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by moose_skinner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats really long longest ive had a boyfriend it was for 1 month well you should tell him u really do like him just more as a boy thats a friend then a boyfriend
2006-06-29 06:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-29 06:36:34 · answer #9 · answered by Coz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it.....let him know how you feel and tell him he is not giving you what you want. that you need to feel complete. maybe after you talk to him, things will get better with the two of you.
2006-06-29 06:46:29 · answer #10 · answered by LASHANNA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋