I am trying to get a boyfriend what do I do?

Question

I am 14 years old.

Answer 1

stop putting ur age on the net... and be patient u r just 14.. u will find a guy soon... all the best

Answer 2

y do u guys write ur ages 1st of all? anyways boyfriends are not u will get anywhere. its difficult to find someone. it will take time to fine the perfect boy for u. good luck!

Answer 3

First of all ask yourself why you think you "need" a boyfriend at fourteen. Fourteen on through seventeen are the ages you date many different boys. This helps you learn how to deal with the opposite sex, gives you a strong sence of self confidence in this area, allows you to see what you like in a guy and what you don't. If you are just looking to get with one guy you are first: showing desperation and a neediness which will turn boys off, second: you are depriving yourself of the experiance most other teens have of dating different boys and not being with just one, and third: you are showing you do not have a strong self esteem and need somebody else to provide what is missing in life.

None of these things are healthy for a fourteen year old girl. You are valuable and have a lot of worth. Why are you so desperate for a boyfriend? Look to your girlfriends for the emotional connections you need the most during these years.

If you stop looking so hard and spend time with your girlfriends, ignore their dating habits, and just be yourself, boys will come to you without you having to put forth effort. Boys are constantly looking for girls. Also, are you saying you are prepared to give up sex at fourteen? Boys who say they have a "girl friend" are usually getting their sexual needs met by that girl. You are too young to be engaging in sex, and if a boy will only be with you if you give him sex, he is not the boy for you. Then you are telling yourself that your worth lies in sex, and not in who you are in your soul, who you are which makes you special without having sex. You have a lot to offer, don't think for a moment you don't. Just because you are at a vulnerable place right now, does not mean you should rush into a 'relationship" in which sex is a requirment.

Relax, be yourself, spend time with your friends, and the boys will come to you. Boys are attracted to confidence in girls. They do not like girls to be all needy and clingy. If you just relax, be yourself, see yourself as valuable and worthy, others will see that too. Others treat you as you treat yourself. If you treat yourself with respect and dignity, others will treat you with respect and dignity. If you lower yourself and disrespect yourself, then others will treat you badly too.

Be good to yourself, respect yourself, be yourself, have fun, don't worry about having a boyfriend or not, and the boys will come on their own. Trust me I know what I am talking about. I once was that insecure, lonely fourteen year old. I looked despertly for a boyfriend, thinking a boy would make me feel better about myself and my lfie. All I got was taken advantage of untill I realized I was setting myself up for how they treated me. When I stopped and began treating myself better, stopped being with boys who just wanted sex, then the better boys liked me and later I was able to really date and have a good time.

Just be yourself, find things you like to do, spend time with your friends go to school, build up your self esteem and self respect and every thing will fall into place. It really will. Honest.

Answer 4

woagh u r way to young sorry go get a babysitter

Answer 5

tooo young