i have never had a boyfriend before, but he does really good on o.s. but we dont have intercourse but i feel bad cuz he feels bad because he cant make me orgasm...but he tried for over an hour one time and still didnt succeed! we had sex 2x but now we decided to wait until we marry next june.
2006-06-29 06:24:45 · 4 answers · asked by marriedin2007 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Well we had sex 2x in April, but we decided to wait and not do it no more until we are married. and yes i am very emotionally attached to him. and no it wasnt painful after an hour but the next couple of days i was so sensitive he couldnt even hardly touch it!
2006-06-29 06:45:31 · update #1
i mean from clitoral stimulation not vaginal. I thought maybe the problem was because it is not vaginal but according to some answers it should be easier clitorally, but i enjoy vaginal much more. like i like oral sex but i feel closer to coming if he fingers me but i dont really know because i have never orgasmed!!!!!!!!
2006-06-29 07:36:29 · update #2
ok...so u dont have intercourse but you had sex 2 times...hmm...darling you've had intercourse :)
2006-06-29 06:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by lil_meex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there. . . .
THe thing about Orgasms is that they have a mind of their own,. You can do everythign right and still not have one, and you can do it all wrong, and have it be mindblowing, so. . .. .
But don't discount your age, or your mood, or where you are in your cycle, and a million other things that you might not think about.
Also, remember that making love is about the whole thing- oral, intercourse, everything is a part of that. A LOT of women can't come from penetration, because that penetration part is really about the closeness rather than the actual clitoral stimulation- you have to work a lot to get to the point where your vagina opens up and your body WANTS him that close.
He tried for over an hour? ! ?!? !? !?! Um, wasn't that painful?
Stop worrying about HOW you make love, and do what feels right. Don't worry about having trouble coming- that will kill an orgasm faster than anything- if you focus on your partners pleasure, instead of worrying that he'll be mad, or feel inadequate if you don't come, will make it better for both of you.
2006-06-29 06:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa'sGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you talking about having an orgasim just from intercourse. believe it or not it is very rare for a woman to have an "internal" orgasim. The clitoris is your bestfriend have him orally or by hand stimulate your clitoris and you maybe surprised at what happens. Don't hold your breath waiting for a penis induced orgasim it will likely never happen.
2006-06-29 07:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you emotionally attatched to him. I never had orgasm til I found the right guy.,
2006-06-29 06:27:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋