I am a decided spinster of 33yrs, happy with my own world & can never let it go under any circumstances. Not much social, I generally avoid people, but recently a colleague has expressed his interest in marrying me. Unfortunately, I don't share the feelings of his. Neither I want to let him feel down, nor do I want to make a mess of it, in the staffroom. My other colleagues know about it, & it is through one of them he has sent his proposal. I don't want to leave the job, for it will be too much sacrificing for me. Any other way out ?
2006-06-29 06:22:13 · 3 answers · asked by anwesha08 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What is this 8th grade? He wasn't enough of a man to ask you to marry him to your face so he asked someone else to send it. He couldn't hit send on his own computer.
How about this, you be the adult and tell him to his face as kindly as possible what you told us ie you love being single and alone and are not willing to give that up for anyone.
2006-06-29 06:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless I misread...nobody asked you face to face to marry them. You don't 'arrange' or 'ask' this type of question through another person. I would simply tell the person who told you that you do not consider this a serious question deserving of an answer and let it sit. Something sure doesn't sound right here.
Best of luck.
2006-06-29 13:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
critical situation
but u ve to tell a little liue u know it..but if u doing this it wud be greater than truth
say to him that u r waitin for someone else who is just struglin for u n u don wana betray him.
besty of luck
2006-06-29 13:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by anuragLucknow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋