I went to a new school this year and I barely had any friends because i was like super shy... but i guess it was okay but i had to change schools after i graduated from elementry and i had a few choices but mainly everyone except for a few people wanted to go to this highschool and i didnt want to because i couldnt stand being a loner for ever, i wanted to start over.. i signed up to go to the other school that most pple werent goin. But now im really depressed because i dont know if i have chosen the right one. What if this happens to be again? i cant go on changein school jus because im like a loner.. but i mean i do have some people to hang with now but then im seriously not always happy. But then today was the last day of school and for some reason i felt like i was depressed and i would miss them. But i waited so long for this day so that i could start over. But why? why am i so unhappy and did i make the right choice?
2006-06-29 06:16:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
You are unhappy because you doubt yourself and you are afraid to go to a new school -- it's totally natural, you're just human.
Even though you were unhappy at your last school, at least you knew where you stood and what to expect. You're afraid of the unknown now.
What you need to do now is to forget about your old school, and be happy about your new school. If you are shy then start looking into activities at your new school that you are interested in (yearbook, sports, etc.) where you can make new friends and be happy with what you're doing.
Also, please realize that even though adults seem like they don't have these problems, many people have gone through the same thing at your age! Don't worry, you'll get through it!
2006-06-29 06:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by Debbie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey , I know i am the 1st one to send to you . Hey , Dood follow your hurt your question needs top be solved right away because i was there too . When i was reading you have a feeling to stay in this school because you are missing your new friends may be they will change and you can be best friends . 1st of all you have to talk with these people may be they can change with your conversation because nobody is perfect (but you have to do it Know for you to decide ) If they are not changing after 3 to 4 weeks that means they are gone change slowly or may be never so you should enter in a new school and in that new school be your self because if your not your self they will think that your an idiot or something . Last advice if you are a christian go to your pastor and tell the same way as you told us and he will tell you what you have to do by the word of god
2006-06-29 06:39:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, don't be so hard on yourself. it's natural to feel that you will miss them when school ended, even if you weren't all that close to them. a new beginning can be a great thing, try to make the best of it and you'll surely find someone to get along with there. just try to be a little more outgoing and you'll do fine, try to have fun and relax, that way you'll make friends. i'm telling you from my own experience, don't assume the worst. the first days will probably be a little weird and agitated, but soon it will get so much better because you'll have the chance to meet new people. and to let you in a little "secret", everyone's a little shy when it comes to meeting new people, so it will be the same for them.
feel better, you deserve it!
2006-06-29 06:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by Deep Thought 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you will be unhappy at either school until you learn to come out of your shell and trust people. I know that it is hard to do that, but start out slow. Find one person to trust and then gradually you will start letting others in. To have friends you have to be one. Start your new school with the outlook that you are going to try to be more outgoing, even if it is baby steps. You would be surprised at how many other kids are just as scared as you are!
2006-06-29 06:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by bubba's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are thinking about it too much. Just live life day by day. Be happy you wake up in the morning and breath air and have food to eat. Once you are happy about the simple things, then everything else is an extra added bonus.
2006-06-29 06:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by allknowing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You worry wayyyyyyy too much, one day at a time.
If you want freinds, be open to them and give it a try, meet people if they dont accept you go on and try the next.
Never fear rejection, just know that if someone is not your freind they are missing out on learning your story.
Email me anytime, eg_ansel@yahoo.com if you need a freind.
Every now and then I get some good wisdom from the angels and I share it freely.
Love you.
2006-06-29 06:24:33 · answer #6 · answered by eg_ansel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. Think about what kinds of activities you might want to get into in high school (There are bound to be tons). Do you like art? Sports? Drama? Community service? Find things you like to do and you are likely to find people you like to be around doing them, too. Enjoy your fresh start, and just be yourself.
And, hey, it's okay to be a loner sometimes, too. ;-)
2006-06-29 08:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by Kerri C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋