Everytime i think that everything is going write, it all go wrong, and i want to know why.
2006-06-29 06:08:58 · 39 answers · asked by Kyrsten 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
That is life on lifes terms honey..
Heres something you might enjoy.....
Everything happens for a reason, nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Injury, Illness, love lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, if they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be a smoothly paved path to nowhere.
If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, foregive them. For they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to who you open your heart to.
If someone loves you, love them back uncondittionally, not only because they love you but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you never would have seen or felt without them.
Make everyday count. Apprichiate every moment and take from it everything you can, for you may never be able to expierience it again.
Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Hold your head up high because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you dont believe in yourself no one else will believe you either.
You can make your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it.
Good Luck!
2006-06-29 06:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by Free & Sassy 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
We live in a very dynamic world. The thing you should always be looking out for is complacency. At the point you feel there are no challenges and things are under control the universe will throw something at you.
The best way to keep this in line is to constantly challenge yourself. If you are growing as a person this really will happen less. Another thing to remember is that Kharma is very real regardles of what you call it. What goes around comes around.
Do nice things for others and it will be returned in kind. This helps us get through thos challenging times.
Kar
2006-06-29 06:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by Karynth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How realistic are your expectations of what is supposed to happen? Do you honestly look at situations and say, "this is what I've done to make this happen" or do you say "this is what should happen to me because I want it to?"
A lot of people think life is always kicking them in the butt because
(a) they do not count the blessings they do have
(b) they think good things should happen without any involvement or preparation on their part
(c) they set themselves up for failure after failure, never learning from their mistakes
It's usually one of these three reasons. Random bad things do happen to people, but not as often as things that can be prevented from being bad by a little more work on your part.
Sit down and examine your life. Isn't there something that you can say is good? Isn't there a little ray of sunshine somewhere? No life is all black, all bad, all sorrow and sadness. Start appreciating the blessings you've already got, and new ones will come.
Prepare yourself for happy, good things. Don't expect that things will go bad. Expect the opposite instead. Focus on the positive things that come out of any situation, instead of the negative things.
Treat every setback not as a minus in your life, but as a lesson you need to learn, and be grateful for it. That is the only way you can absorb the truth in such setbacks and learn from your mistakes. PAY ATTENTION to your failures! They will teach you something!
Don't set yourself up for failure by having expectations that are unrealistic, standards that no one can meet, or outrageous ideas that you can't follow up on. There's nothing wrong with dreaming, but learn to distinguish dreaming from attaining. If you have big dreams and you really don't want to lower your standards, then learn that it does not happen overnight, to anyone, EVER. You must take each little victory and build it up until you reach your goal or your dream. Then, don't consider it all over--start another one!
Remember that there is always someone better off than you, AND there is always someone worse off than you. Always. No one is "number one" nor is anyone at the bottom of the abyss.
Don't waste your time comparing yourself. That will only make you crazy. Love who you are, for what you are, and love what you do and how you do it--and let the rest GO.
Many times there is no "why" when things go wrong. Soemtimes no matter how much you plan, and no matter how it looks on paper, it doesn't work out. Shrug your shoulders, hoist your pack up again and MOVE ON. Do something else. Get busy.
Be interested in other things and people. Everyone on this planet can teach you something. Every situation has a lesson you can learn. There is an infinity of knowledge waiting for you and there is an infinity of goodness out there too.
Badness and evil have severe limitations. One of their biggest limits is your attitude toward them. You know how voodoo only works if you believe it will? The same thing applies to Badness.
It only has power over you if you GIVE IT POWER. Refuse to allow it to have power over you and things begin to turn around pretty fast.
The same thing applies to people. Don't give them what you can't afford to lose. This does NOT include love. Love is different. Love gets BIGGER the more you give it away.
CHOOSE happiness over the alternatives. Don't choose sorrow. Don't choose pain. Don't choose bad luck. Choose happiness and good luck and good fortune. Believe it. No matter what religious beliefs you have, this works.
Think highly enough of yourself that you won't allow others to bring you down.
And one last thing--remember this----engrave it on your forehead if you have to:
"I don't know" is NEVER a correct answer on any multiple choice test. And life is a multiple choice test.
2006-06-29 06:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by Christin K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is inevitable whenever something is going too well just know it is to good to be true. You will never be able to get out of that circle of life until your dead. That's just the way we are created, that's just how the world is ran. Based on nothing but a whole lot of good stuff followed by a boat load of bad over and over. Just know it, view it as a growing process, and get through it with as much joy and happiness as you can.
2006-06-29 06:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by queenie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is what you make of it and some times life is what it makes of you isnt it ironic dont you think ? a little toooooo ironic i really do think ....
An old man turned ninety-eight
He won the lottery and died the next day
It's a black fly in your Chardonnay
It's a death row pardon two minutes too late
Isn't it ironic... don't you think
It's like rain on your wedding day
It's a free ride when you've already paid
It's the good advice that you just didn't take
Who would've thought... it figures
Mr. Play It Safe was afraid to fly
He packed his suitcase and kissed his kids good-bye
He waited his whole damn life to take that flight
And as the plane crashed down he thought
"Well isn't this nice..."
And isn't it ironic... don't you think
Well life has a funny way of sneaking up on you
When you think everything's okay and everything's going right
And life has a funny way of helping you out when
You think everything's gone wrong and everything blows up
In your face
A traffic jam when you're already late
A no-smoking sign on your cigarette break
It's like ten thousand spoons when all you need is a knife
It's meeting the man of my dreams
And then meeting his beautiful wife
And isn't it ironic... don't you think
A little too ironic... and yeah I really do think...
Life has a funny way of sneaking up on you
Life has a funny, funny way of helping you out
Helping you out
2006-06-29 06:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by insenergy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one ever said life would be easy and if everything went right all the time then where would be the adventure in that!! Just keep your head up and take life in stride, day by day, don't sweat all the little things and focus on the big picture.
2006-06-29 07:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by SugarKisses22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you never have things under control in the first place. Life is not something to be controlled.
2006-06-29 06:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by Rocks#1Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The small piece of the puzzle: you may have some difficulty
The big picture : the difficulty trains you to have more appreciation more the more important things. The difficulty is a small test for you. One expression that is relevant: "Tough Times Don't Last -Tough People Do!"
The big picture: everything is good and live is good.
2006-06-29 06:25:39 · answer #8 · answered by Ken C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like John Lennon said: Life is what happens while you're busy making other plans.
You can't control everything, and you will be miserable trying. Let life take it's course and enjoy the ride.
2006-06-29 06:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by brand_new_monkey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because life is too big to control everything... control your actions, behavior, and thoughts.... that is all you can do, you can't control the millions of others that can impact your life... also, try to see the good in all the little things. r u alive? healthy? happy, for the most part? do the flowers smell nice? is the air clean? etc..
2006-06-29 06:13:24 · answer #10 · answered by who be boo? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋