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Here is the situation, I am 40 yr old married guy and she is a 50 something married woman. We kinda flirt a bit and we did make out awhile back at a company dinner (we were both drunk ) I want to take it to the next level but I am not sure where she stands, I think she might be a bit shy, but I also thinks that she likes me. I wish there was a sign on her head that said "YES".
Any help would be appriciated, or if there is anything you think I can do to make this happen let me know. We have know eachother for 7 years and just recently she took another job a few miles away.

2006-06-29 06:00:56 · 9 answers · asked by merlin653 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

9 answers

Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!

2006-06-30 11:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0 0

Okay first off, read what you first wrote "I am a 40 yr old MARRIED guy and she is a 50 something MARRIED woman." I mean come on, you are both married, you shouldn't hope for anything like this to happen. That could be detrimental to both of your marriages. You and her are a little to old and should be to mature to play games such as this one. I think you should be a little more concerned with what is going wrong in your marriage and why it is that you want another women, as opposed to being so concerned as to how you are going to fish someone else who is married into having an affair with you. I'm sorry but you sound very childish and a man of your age and a women of her age should have more morals, and know what lines do and do not need to be crossed when you make a vow such as marriage. It's men and women like you that make marriage so scary, and make everyone else who is a good woman or a good man look bad and that is what makes everyone else think that the person they date will be unfaithful. Get your priorities straight, focus more on your family instead of some women who will end up staying with her husband anyway and you will be kicked to the curb and chances are you will be kicked to the curb by both women, because your wife will probably find out. Give me a break!!

2006-06-29 13:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Man, you're asking for a shitload of trouble especially if your married.... personally dude i would say sort the problems you have at home first man, thats the real problem.

Then after you sort those problems, maybe she wont be worth chasing or she'll be worth even more, but first sort the stuff at home.

2006-06-29 13:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Slowly lower yourself over a cliff (so you are just hanging on)...
then scream for her help.
Ask her to remove her skirt, so as she can pull you up.
If her modesty is less important; to her, than saving your life... I would say, she is very interested.
If NOT... Well at least; you will get a 'good eyeful' before you fall!
"Happy Landings"!!!

2006-06-29 13:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by HackneyDemon 3 · 0 0

be a man, just invited her to dinner, movie, and party. meaning that you can get her to go out with you as a friend. if there is something, you will know. example, dinner every night, you know what she need, like using a spoon over fork, like water over soda. just know her habit. that will make her feel that you love her.

2006-06-29 13:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0 0

you should talk to her in private and see how she feels about you. Yuo shouldn't take it too seriously at the moment because her husband will get hurt.

2006-06-29 13:03:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

stay away from married women. all this will do is lead to trouble. "do onto others as you want done to you" Would you want your wife cheating on you?

2006-06-29 13:06:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

whoa dude SHES MARRIED!!! i mean is she like some desperate housewife to u eww eww eww

2006-06-29 13:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

she is a loser ***** like every other woman. go ahead and waste more time and money. lol. its not my cash buddy

2006-06-29 13:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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