2006-06-29 06:00:34 · 6 answers · asked by *KadinsMama* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Personally, I think either one of two things has happened.
Either:
One-You've presented yourself in such a manner that others feel comfortable approaching you for help.
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Two-You've helped others in the past to the point that you are now allowing them to take adavantage of you.
After all with a few exceptions no one can take advantage of you unless you let them.
2006-06-29 06:05:01 · answer #1 · answered by blackwolf917 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋
No its not a bad thing if you getting pisted off is because people are going to far by asking constanly and for bigger and bigger favors.... listen to me because this happend to me and my husband all the time.. you just have to learn to say no i cant sorry!!!!! we had to learn to say no.everything has a limit and if you are dealing with the type of people that have the fresh face to ask why not?? just looking at their fresh faces and saying i dont have to say why i cant, i just wont do this favor for you sorry!!! you dont have to go in to details about why not or nothing but if your a person that feel that giving a reason some how would make the situation better you say this i just have to watch for the favors that im doing to people for my own financial reasons.that is that. but to your original question the answer is no because if your feelling bother is because somebody is taking major advantage of your good heart.just say no honey,good luck.
2006-06-29 13:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is a bad thing that you are getting ticked off. The way to stop that is to say NO!!!!! It's not an easy thing to do but a very necessary one. You will run yourself into the ground by trying to please everyone. Learn to say NO
2006-06-29 13:07:02
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answered by doglady 5
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I don't think it is a bad thing, but it depends on the circumstance. I mean if you ALWAYS lend a helping hand people are going to continue to use that. I would simply help with what you can and not get so consumed by all the aggravation.
2006-06-29 13:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by Missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a bad thing at all. if you let them they will take advantage of you.
2006-06-29 13:03:05 · answer #5 · answered by gcl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no.
2006-06-29 13:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by Badkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋