I have gained 30lbs since meeting my current husband, and I'm afraid that he'll leave me...?

Question

I used to be a size 6 when I met my husband. We've been married for 2months and I started gaining weight about 1yr ago. I am now 2months pregnant, so I have an excuse for the time being. When I give birth, I'm afraid I'll look the same. He goes to the gym every morning 5 days a week. He eats very healthy and I am nothing like that. He says he'd never leave me but, I am still worried. Does anyone know what I can do to lose weight after the baby.. Aside from STOP EATING and go to the gym!! I need to find a method by taking a walk or drinking lots of water... Stuff like that.

Answer 1

Honestly whatever the attraction was when you guys first met that should always be respected and maintained throughout the relationship on both parts. Unfortunately we get laxed and think that he/she loves us sooo much that it's OK to gain weight,or just let ourselves go when if when we met our partner at whatever state their in later, IE gaining weight etc. we probably wouldn't have been that attracted to them. You didn't give him that chance to make up his own mind in the beginning, because you weren't that heavy, you were a size six. After the baby you owe to your self as well as him to maintain proper diet, and health you'd have more energy for the kids as well. You can look in the mirror and smile, after you lose the wait :) If he's taunting you about losing the weight that would be just wrong, and a whole new topic of conversation. Good luck to you! Once the exercise regimen has begun you'll wonder how you ever lived without it.

Answer 2

You have 2 youngsters that want each mom and dad. It sounds slightly egocentric to your husband's side, certainly considering the fact that he additionally has won weight, however I'm definite you desire him to discover you stunning. It's no longer handiest the truth that he mentioned he might go away you, I can have an understanding of your harm emotions.. but additionally, it isn't well for you, to your wellbeing. Obese persons have plenty of healthful disorders. Make an attempt for the sake of your marriage and your 2 invaluable children. That is, in case you love him of path, and desire your marriage to move on. First of all give up consuming goodies. Those are the worst, and restrict the volume of oil or fats for your foods. Eat the whole thing however in small characteristics. One Little trick is to devour a tremendous salad after which devour slightly of the leisure. The salad will make you consider complete and the truth that the final meals you had used to be, shall we embrace a work of meat or chook, or some thing, will idiot you and you'll be able to consider as in case you had eaten extra of the ones. Exercising is helping plenty. Walking is a well recreation and it does not want plenty of attempt. People let you know he is a jerk however they do not even recognize him. You are the one one that is aware of that. He is also seeking to drive you slightly to realize the drawback by way of announcing the ones matters. Maybe he loves you greater than you believe. .

Answer 3

i know people who have done weight watchers and it really works without exercising IF you stick to the plan. exercising will help you lose the weight faster. i know going to the gym can be scary so maybe you can find a friend to go with you. if you really just do not want to go to the gym try some exercise videos. there's one out called the firm that really works. you can go to their website to order them. they do a lot of work with the "firm fanny lifter" and you can only get it through the website. don't worry if you can't do the whole workout or if you can't do it exactly as they do it. the more you do it the better you will get. i bought their videos 3 years ago and i couldn't even do 10 minutes. no i can do the whole workout and i can even do some of the higher intensity versions.

if your husband says he won't leave you, believe him and don't dwell on that. i gained over 100 pounds in 10 years and my husband never made me feel like i was any less attractive than i was when we met. i've lost 65 pounds now and i am in better shape than i've ever been in my life. i still have more weight to lose, but i know i'll make it. if you need a friend to talk to you can e-mail me.

Answer 4

sounds like already know what to do. If you're pregnant the most you should do is talk walks, and eat healty for you and your baby. If you are worried about retaining weight after the baby is born, I understand, I did. But, alot of it is genetics (look at your mom and your dad's mom ask them if they had trouble losing the weight afterwards) the other part is up to you to get back in shape afterward. Since your husband attends a gym already, just go with him, if you can and work out. Plus, you'll get to meet any friends he has at the gym, and more importantly, they'll meet you.

Answer 5

Please don't worry about anything... If he says he won't leave, he won't. He's true to his word and he loves you with all his heart :) For the time being just relax and look forward to seeing your baby in the couple of months! It'll be so much fun! You should be happy and not worried sick about your gained weight.

Just to let you know there's a way to loose all the gained weight within one to two weeks, and it's a proven way :) There's a set of DVD/VHS called "Turbo Jam." It works wonders on anyone who's either slightly overweight (like you and me) or very severly overweight. The results are shockingly amaizing!

I personally lost 5lbs in one day workout... lol... I couldn't believe it! I started to feel great not only physically but also emotionally. I felt like I had so much energy that I could run a mile non-stop and even accomplish a lot of things during the day. I felt taller, more flexible, a lot stronger and tonned!

Here's a website you can go to for additional details:
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I hope this helped :)

Don't worry, everything will be alright. Best of luck and take care :)

Answer 6

After having a baby, while breast feeding is one of the easiest times to lose weight. Put that baby in a stroller and get out there and walk - 30 to 60 minutes a day. Watch what you eat, drink lots of water and maybe join a mommy and me class that will get you and your baby both doing little exercises.

Answer 7

Go on a protein based diet, which also provides you all necessary vitamins and minerals. In order also to become well shaped again you might need some additional herbal concentrates and the whole thing needs to be combined with drinking about 3 to 5 l of water or tea per day.

I know this from Herbalife diets of my friends and this company also provides an effectiive assistance by its distributors, in order to change your eating habits from high calories input to normal.

Answer 8

water helps a lot. if you feel like you need to eat, but you know that you don't really NEED to, drink a glass of water and wait 15 min. the craving will have disappeared. also after the baby is born, you could put it in the stroller and take long walks to get it to sleep or something. and maybe he doesn't really love you if he would leave you...you should relax and if he says he loves you and won't leave you, believe it, unless there are other problems in your relationship

Answer 9

It's important for you to keep active. It's hard to start back after you have the baby. Swimming is good. So are brisk walks.

The main thing is don't get so down on yourself that you create a problem with your marriage. (IE "I'm so fat you don't love me.") Then you become a different person than the woman your husband married. (Keep saying it and it will come true.)

Congratulation on your pregnancy. Best wishes.

Answer 10

While you are pregnant, make sure you do not gain more than the recommended amount because anything over that is on you! After you give birth, eat healthfully, exercise and breastfeed. Breastfeeding alone will burn 500 calories a day!