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Question

Sick of trying to get pregnant, its been 7 months Im starting to get worried, how long should you try until you should go see a doctor, I really didnt think this would happen to me, or be so hard...thanks.

I dont know when I ovulate, my cycles are very irregular.

Answer 1

Oh forsure, its so frustrating...I waiting, its like every month I was counting down the dates to my next period hoping I wouldn't get it. Don't give up though, just try not to even think about it. Think of sex as fun and exciting not just to concieve.

Hubby and I have been trying for 6-7months and I just found out I'm pregnant on Tuesday. It will happen forsure. Good Luck!!

www.ababiesworld.com Its a great forum, for woman to are TTC and everything else.

Answer 2

My cycles are also irregular. But, I do have a period every 28-30 days. The length of the cycle is also irregular. Part of irregular cycles could be due to PCOS. It is a hormonal thing that affects ovulation. Which could be why you aren't getting pregnant.

To find you need to visit your doctor. Have them do an ultrasound or refer you to a Reproductive Endocronologist to see. The telltale sign is a string of pearls on the ovaries. Not literally, but that is how the ovaries look in PCOS patients.

Generally, if under 35 and no pregancy for a year. And, if over 35 and no pregnancy in 6 months.

However, if you have PCOS and symptoms you will get treated by a r.e. irregardless of elapsed time without a pregnancy.

Answer 3

Hmmm. First off, I can't imagine getting tired of, well, trying to get my wife pregnant. That's supposed to be the fun part! Seven months is not really that long a time. However, if you do have some concerns, these might be rooted in something of which you are unconsciously aware, so a Dr. visit is appropriate. Assuming you are female, and somewhere between 18 and 50 (legal age to the oldest woman I know to have gotten pregnant), here are some things you may not have considered:
Are you truly in love with your partner?
Does he hold you up on a pedestal?
Do you hold him up on a pedestal?
Do foresee this as a long-term relationship?
Are you under more stress than usual?
Do you really want a child now?
Does he really want a child now?
How stable is your home life?
How stable is your/his employment?

Whether or not you are conscious or conscientious of these things, your body most definitely is. Be kind to it and listen carefully. Perhaps your timing has been a bit off. The best answer to this is more frequency (increase the possibility)! Aside from any biological concerns, external pressures can also have a profound effect. ("Your biography becomes your biology" - Carolyn Myss).
Best wishes~

Answer 4

You have to remember, You only ovulate 1 day out of the entire month. Your doctor will be able to give you tips on figuring out which day this is and you want to have sex one day before, ON the day, AND the next.......and then whenever you want.

ALSO, REMEMBER, THE MORE SEX THE LESS LIKELY.

Every time a man nuts it decreases the strength of his sperm. My doctor told me it takes 2- 2 1/2 weeks for a mans sperm to gain its full strength. So humping like rabbits isnt making it any better by now he's shooting blanks.

So figure out your ovulation date, NO SEX for atleast 2-2 1/2 weeks not even masturbating(for him of course)......and then have sex the day before your figured ovulation date the day of and the day after ..........It worked for me.........

My doctor told me it would take me a whole year to figure it out because you figure your ovulation by your period (im sorry i dont remember that process but you can google that time table) I looked back 3 months and figured it out.........abstained from sex for the 2 1/2 weeks and the next month low and behold I was pregnant.

If your cycle is too irregular to keep up with try buying a home ovulation kit. They may be a little expensive but it'll help you figure things out and be well worth it in the end.

ONE MORE THING: The more pressure you put on yourself the less likely it is too because you're stressing your body out. Its a natural thing........relax and just let it happen when the time is right...........I'm sure you'll figure it out..........No Worries ;)

There's nothing wrong with you!!!

Answer 5

Don't be frustrated....it's actually normal.

The trick is knowing when you ovulate. There are 4 days in a month when you can get pregnant. A woman usually starts ovulating 14 days BEFORE her next period. So, if you are regular, you should know when your next period should be. So, on that day, 14 days before your period, you should try. Also, let one day go by and then try again.

I did this when trying for our second child and it worked like a charm.....but every woman is different.

Good luck to you!!

Answer 6

You should go see an ob-gyn. My wife has polycistic ovaries and very irregular periods. The doctor put her on a medicine called glucophage (that diabetic people take) because she said it would increase her chances of getting pregnant. and it worked! she is now 14 weeks pregnant.

Answer 7

usually the docs want you to wait 1 year of activally trying to concieve(if under 35) before considering fertilitly treatments and 6 mths if over 35.

Answer 8

Well, I could take up to a year for you to get pregnant, after that, it's recommended you visit a fertility specialist. Good luck and don't stress too much, they baby will come when he or she's ready.

Answer 9

It's always the best thing to visit a doctor. Perhaps there are no health problems but I'm sure he/she can help you on how to get about it. Never give up ;)

Answer 10

go to the doc and see whether or not you are fertile. Your man should go, too because the problem with getting pregnant may not be yours but his.