Ok, my man is taking off tomorrow he's going out of the state for about 2 weeks. I feel so miserable I've never been away from him for so long. I need advice on how to give him a nice good bye and I also dont know what I am going to do for 2 weeks with out him. What do you suggest? Lonely Lady for the next 2 weeks.
2006-06-29 05:38:21 · 10 answers · asked by Sol 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Make sure you put it on him before he leaves. Next, do some things that you normally don't get to do like hang out with friends or catch up on house work. You always have Yahoo questions when you really get bored. Enjoy this time with yourself. It may be your last time. Good luck
2006-06-29 05:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by Boss' n it 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about it honey - two weeks really isn't a long time. It may seem like forever, but it'll fly by. The important things to do: to give him a nice send off, just be the person that he loves and don't try to start a fight or cause bad feelings to be the last memory he has of you. MOST IMPORTANTLY -- go out and do somethings for YOURSELF! Even if he is your boyfriend and possibly your best friend and you both enjoy spending all your time together, it is important to get out there and do things on your own sometimes and this is a good opportunity to do such a thing. Start a hobby, or get involved in something - something that keeps you as an individual and whole person instead of just a half person when he is away. The truth about relationships is that you either marry the guy or you break up - so don't build your whole life around him in case it eventually doesn't work out. Because if he becomes your entire world and you depend on him to not be lonely - what do you think will happen if you guys to eventually break up? Knock on wood, not that i would want this to happen to you, I'm just saying (from personal experience) its nice to have time to yourself every now and then to regain the person who you are - and what's even better, the time will pass so quickly.
Personal experience: I dated a boyfriend for 6 months and then he went away for three weeks - I thought I was going to die - but after a few days i realized it wasn't so bad, he was going to come back anyway. So I started a new hobby - figure skating, and that really became a passion of mine - and now I have this wonderful thing love to do all the time (by myself) and it keeps me as an individual (even more so because I eventually dumped the guy).
Don't worry about it - the weeks will fly by. Im currently in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend i met in college (he just graduated, and i still have two more years) I try to see him as much as I can (usually once every two weeks), but what keeps me going is my own hobbies, my own friends, and what I tell myself is really important too: "That he is away, yes, but that doesn't mean that he will be gone forever, and doesn't mean that I am gone from his thoughts and heart either."
Good luck - I know you can do it :)
2006-06-29 05:52:52 · answer #2 · answered by Kristen Liane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take this time to find yourself, this won't happen a lot, so its an advantage, not to dwell but to take the time to smell the Roses or coffee? anyway make a list of thing you where wanting to do and check each one off as you go, wright about this and the end results, you could be helping someone in the future in the same picture, I wish you good luck.
2006-06-29 05:51:43 · answer #3 · answered by paula m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a strange coincidence....my boyfriend is coming home tomorrow.and he's been gone for 3 weeks now!I'm going to be honest with you:you're gonna miss him like hell and you're gonna be bored to death without him.before my guy left we had a nice romantic dinner.for the next 2weeks try shopping,working out,maybe even changing your look a bit to make him a nice surprise.so good luck sweetie
2006-06-29 06:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by littleone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fix him a nice meal. Tell him you love him. Tell him that you'll miss him. Make love slowly and passionately. Try something that you've never done with each other. When he leaves tomorrow, kiss him like it's last one ever. Then say, "there's more where that came from."
2006-06-29 06:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really hard to be without your love for two weeks, but if you really love him, you'll stand it just for him. And if you want him to remember you for two whole weeks, give him the wildest sex he's ever had, he'll be eager that the two weeks end up fast so he'll come home to you.
2006-06-29 05:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by RaM SiX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to keep you company for the next two weeks.
2006-06-29 05:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by s v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oddly - I'm not doing anything for 2 weeks either....
2006-06-29 05:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you love him, and have him call you to say good night...or good morning....then when he is gone, you can have YOU time...pamper yourself....get a massage, pedicure, maincure...then when he comes home your destressed..oh and bake him something yummy for his home coming...that usually works....
2006-06-29 05:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by amyann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess spent this time with your friends and wait til your man gets back to you it will past by like notrhin
2006-06-29 05:41:44 · answer #10 · answered by i love him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋