2006-06-29 05:34:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
With tape, and superglue.
2006-06-29 05:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to heal, you have to let yourself hurt. The more you allow yourself to feel the hurt you have experiences, the faster you heal.
I don't mean that you should dwell on it. Rather, when you feel yourself hurting, take some time and think about why or what started the feeling. Understand it and then let it go.
Example:
Yesterday, I saw a couple in the 40s driving in a Mustang convertible. When they stopped at the traffic light next to me, the woman reached over stroked her husband's hand. He looked over her and they smiled at each other. It was really nice.
For my part, I felt a terrible sense of loss. I don't have that sort of affection in my life, and may never have it. I had a few tears and thought it through.
Hope this helps.
2006-06-29 12:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to hear that u have a broken heart. It is TOUGH! Please believe me .. I was with my ex boyfriend of three years and half. I thought that we are the most perfect couple and happy together. The plm was that he always listens to ppl before me . it kills our relationship because of this. I love him so much and i thought that i was going to marry him and have a future.. OOPS! one day , he told me how beautiful and sexy woman i was to him and he felt that theres no love between us.. I was shocked as hell..
I thought that i was the best glf he ever had in his whole life as he always reminded me all the times. LOVE HURTS! He was just saying that there were no love between us because he is a jewish and i am not a jewish. i know his family wants him to marry a jewish girl ... So why was he with me for three years and half for ? we had a buring love .. It was soo hard to heal my broken heart for two years ( LONG HARD YEARS).. I finally got better and better... Starting dating guys ..it was hard becz i have no interest feelings .. Now , im much happier with a better person and am engaged now.. Ur time will come to heal and enjoy with a right person in the future ... it takes time to heal .. it cant be overnight.. i had too many good memories with him .. SIGH..... BUT I LOVE MY fiance very much! heal your heart by joining some fun activities and IT HELPS for me.. advice for you .. take cooking classes, bellydance classes and so on
2006-06-29 12:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by sunnya4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray, pray, pray, and pray some more. Its always going to be something in life to hold on to a little part of whoever caused this pain. Time can only help a little, but your putting forth effort by not being depressed and going in a positive direction with your life should help.
2006-06-29 12:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals the pain.
2006-06-29 12:45:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on you for awhile...accomplish a goal you never thought you could. You will feel great and you may decide that you don't need a mate to be happy.
2006-06-29 12:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its one of those things that takes time. Dating someone isnt going to do it, but rather just take some time to get yourself together. Simple as that.
2006-06-29 13:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time and get active in a healthy lifestyle...keep busy...do some good things for others...get strong...feel empowered...
2006-06-29 12:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by tweetz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find some one else to help get over the pain .. it does work ..
2006-06-29 12:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by blueflowerscs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for another man, that will solve your problem.
2006-06-29 12:41:07 · answer #10 · answered by Tipsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋