This afternoon, a friend of your hubby, (whom you also know and like but whom you both don't get to see very often) telephones and says that there'll be an outdoor concert (free) this evening close to your home.Since she will be in the vicinity, she asks him if would like to come along. He says ok, she will pass by later in the evening. You don't feel like going, you've told him and he's ok with it, although you know that he would like you to come along....(Trust is not the issue here, the friendship btw them is purely platonic).Would you force yourself to go?
2006-06-29 05:28:43 · 19 answers · asked by agr_jujam 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Probably, not because I don't trust him but because it looks like it's going to be a balmy evening and I am too stingy to pass up free entertainment! And at the end of the day to spend an evening in company that you like and who actively want you to be there can't be a bad thing, even if you don't fancy it at this very second...
2006-06-29 05:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by lyonesseuk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
'Hirosan' almost had the correct answer, (it was only the rifle bit that screwed it up) but the main part of the reply was 100% correct, why would you even need to raise this question if you had no problems about your hubby's relationship with this friend?
The question of him going out with friends on his own must have come up before? I suppose if they were male friends that would have been OK?
You must have some doubts! OK then I now agree 100% with the rifle and scope bit!!
2006-06-29 06:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by budding author 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I never feel like going out! It's always such an effort to get ready and leave the comfort of your own home.
But I force myself to go, otherwise my friendships would dwindle and people who I love would get irritated. And I almost always end up enjoying myself.
Unless there was a deeper reason for my not wanting to, I would have gone.
2006-06-29 07:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by Alex should be working 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be better to make yourself go if you can, why would you want to pass up a chance to do something (potentially) fun with your husband when he would like you to be there. Even if you're not interested in the event, taking the opportunity to build your togetherness is a good idea.
2006-06-29 05:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by surlygurl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely i imagine you may have 2 diverse looks in this. Now for me, i'm noticeably instantly ahead or perhaps as it contains men, I tell them what i want. i'd merely say, "Your an exceedingly good buddy and also you're making me somewhat satisfied yet i do not want an intimate courting with you." sure, it would damage him, yet that's guaranteed to ensue one way or yet another. different difficulty is to be thoroughly diffused about it. Lay low, and do as you pronounced. do not carry out as a lot and per chance don't be as flirty.
2016-10-13 23:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the sacrifice is going to be detrimental to the harmony of the household. Nope! If the sacrifice is going to bring you guys closer, because you guys haven't been out in a while. Yes!
I really think this is one that it depends on you guys as individuals and the state of your relationship at this time.
2006-06-29 09:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by fiteprogram 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If yoiu were really convinced that your husband's relationship with the female was platonic, this question wouldn't have come up, would it? Don't go, but follow them and get up on a hill with your binoculars and a rifle with a scope....
2006-06-29 05:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How often has a "purely platonic" relationship been revealed as something else entirely? Of course you should go.
2006-06-29 05:36:07 · answer #8 · answered by artleyb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I will take the opportunity to meet some new friends in the bar hehehe
2006-07-04 22:16:07 · answer #9 · answered by saw ju head 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, if you don't want to be there it will be obvious and spoil their night if youy are happy enough for them to go out together then stay home and relax, am sure hubby will understand
2006-06-29 05:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋