How far would you go to make her happy and keep her happy?
What would you do in order to make her happy?
2006-06-29 05:25:37 · 38 answers · asked by Pat 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
blokes ur giving me s*** answers....
women...what would u want ur bloke to do to make u happy??
2006-06-29 05:58:06 · update #1
i am somebody's wife
lots of times for different reasons i have been unhappy
my husband makes me happy by being there for me....holding my hand while i am down...sweet stuff like that
one time i was in bed crying and he asked if i was crying...i said no & he poked his finger in my eye! When he makes me laugh it makes me happy
do whatever you can for her....it makes a stronger relationship
just make sure you don't compromse your personal ethics! Don't make yourself unhappy!
good luck
2006-06-29 05:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by Cap'n Donna 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and try to find out why she is unhappy, and then remedy the situation if it is within my power. If I cannot, then I will support her in whatever way I can, whether it is a hug, kiss, a shoulder to cry on, or making her laugh.
I believe that communication is key in a relationship, and even if I cannot fix the problem because it does not have to do with me, I think i can still make her feel better just by supporting and being there for her when and if she needs me. That is love.
2006-06-29 05:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by Raistliin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly I`d never bear to make her unhappy.
But as you asked suppose she is unhappy, then find out what you are doing wrong, or what is causing her unhappiness. Follow her lroutine, is she working too much, is she tired and strained, is she bothered with children-parents-home income-health?
As a husband you must be quick to pinpoint the cause of her discomfort. Find a cure to that. And religiously follow the pattern never to make her unhappy again.
Make the marriage last till the last days.
All the best.
2006-06-29 05:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by bharat b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, see what she's unhappy about.
It may not be you, it may be hormones, work, always doing everything by herself with no help, maybe she needs a vacation. You could always get away together or send her to a spa for a few days of pampering.
Without more details, it's hard to help
Are you happy? if not, maybe you both need to sit down and really talk. Good Luck
2006-06-29 05:45:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off talk to her and see whats bothering her. You could be romantic and do things for her. Take her out and make her feel special. Tell her shes beautiful. If u can't make her happy then maybe u two are not right for each other. Trying never hurts though.
2006-06-29 05:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by ♫♪♥mï®♥♫♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chocolate, roses, a moonlit dance to "Must Be Doin' Something Right" by Billy Currington, and wash the dishes occasionally without asking for sex as a reward. Talk about her day. This is chick sex.
Get her away from the kids once a month (if you have any).
2006-06-29 05:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off find out why she is unhappy; is it just depression, work, lifestyle, you (no offense). Then have a talk to see what can be done to correct the situation. It all depends on what is wrong; to what you can do, things don't change overnight. I hope all gets better, good luck.
2006-06-29 05:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by RX2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess that depends on what is causing her to be unhappy. You really need to address the issue of what is bothering her before you can figure out how to help her. for now just be supportive, be a good listener and never judge her.
2006-06-29 05:28:46 · answer #8 · answered by geet840 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to know why she isn't happy then you can work on putting that right.
Maybe start off by reminding her why she is with you and spoil her. Take her out and all women love to be romanced.
Or is that just me??
No they like attention and just show her that you are there for her and she can depend on you in any situation..
2006-06-29 05:29:12 · answer #9 · answered by rockin mermaid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what was making her unhappy. I would do whatever it takes to make her happy. Might even consider getting rid of my girlfriend.
2006-06-29 05:29:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋