what can i and my others friends do to teach her a lesson?
2006-06-29 05:23:05 · 7 answers · asked by monamena 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is a tough one.
Have you tried talking to her about it as she might not beaware she is doing it?
As with most people they don't mean to just dump there friends its just they get caught up in the relationship and time goes by so quickly you just forget sometimes. Not in a nasty way you don't realise what is happening and how it affects people around you. I know this from previous experience. I was lucky to have such good and understanding friends that they forgave me. I learnt my lesson the hard way there.
Just pull her to one side and explain what she is doing. Tell her you understand she is in a new relationship and everything is new to her but tell her not too forget who her friends are.
Why not try to get to know the fella she is with. Why not all go on a night out together? that way you can still see your mate and she still gets to see her fella.
But if she is doing it on purpose then she is a B***h and she is not really a friend at all. Dump her a** lol.
Seriously though if she doesn't realise she is doing it why don't you and your other friends just have a quiet word with her. Otherwise if she knows what she is doing just ignore her, she will be back and when she does you can tell her to sling her hook, thats they way you can get her back. Trust me she will be back. (No i'm not turning into arnie lol)
2006-06-29 07:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by hazel1558 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
to be honest if she dumps you when she has a boyfriend then she's not wrth bothering with my ex best friend did the same thing time and time and time again in the end i told her i didnt want to know after i helped her out each time when she was dumped by her bloke for her to dump me as soon as she got a new bloke. She isn't worth teaching a lesson too, just go out with your other friends and have a laugh she will probably come running back to you and its up to you if you have her as a friend but you just gotta let her get on with it.
2006-06-29 05:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by I~Love~Baileys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl is a biiiitch. i'm 14 and my previous boyfriends we are an entire failure, maximum being cowards and breaking up with my by using texts or facebook. I often began relationship a month after a breakup, yet to get lower back at a guy i for my section enjoyed i've got been given with somebody else to cause them to sense jealous (i comprehend, i'm a terrible individual), yet i think of that approach could artwork with some females. no longer all chicks are bitches, yet maximum are haha.
2016-12-14 02:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by josephine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok its never good to do that, friends are more important she's young and she needs to keep that in mind boyfriends are not the important things in life cuz they can always lie, cheat, or what ever, they all say they don't but don't fall for it, you should explan to her that her friends should always come first, friends are something you can keep in life, bf's and gf's just come in go tell her that try to make her understand that.
2006-06-29 10:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by Kasanrda T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not be there for her the next time she is single, she will soon learn her mistake. she isn't a good friend if she is neglecting her friends for a man she hasn't known or been with very long.
2006-06-29 05:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by Foxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he dumps her and she wants to come back to you, tell her no.
2006-06-29 05:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till she gets dumped and dump her too.
2006-06-29 05:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋