because I have already had sex twice already and i feel like its a little to young to be having sex but my friends tell me that its not and i should keep doing it.....what do ya'll think i should do??
2006-06-29 05:19:40 · 34 answers · asked by nay- nay' 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
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2006-06-29 05:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by Curious 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IMHO, it is. Sex changes a relationship instantly and makes it much more intense and personal. When you're young sometimes this can get you into a serious relationship that you didn't really want or weren't quite ready for.
If you're just have casual sex, then you're giving away the most personal part of your self to somone you barely know.
IMHO, be friends first and wait until you really feel the need for emotional closeness before you make love.
2006-06-29 05:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say 15 is to young cause i was 14, but I've been with this guy for 2 1/2 yrs now. But I do have to say don't listen to your friends they aren't always right and its just peer pressure. You will know when YOU are ready to have sex, so if you don't feel right doing it don't, just wait till you know YOU are ready. And if you wait till YOU are ready you can find someone you really care about and means something to you, you could end up spending a few years in a relationship together.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-06-29 05:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by taytayjomar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think 15 is too, young. You should go with your gut. If you want sex to be a pleasurable, intense moment with someone you deeply care for - please wait. You are giving up something very precious for very little in return. Besides the emotional damage, you must consider the potential for physical damage as well. You have to protect your body, heart, and mind until you are truly ready. The fact that you are asking this question says a lot. Stop before something happens that you can't undo.
2006-06-29 05:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by HelpmeinNC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your friends (or some guy) tell you what is right for you. You and only you will know when you are ready. You will be ready when You don't have to hide it from anybody, or feel like you have to lie about it. You can take the precautions and consequences that come with being sexually active, such as going to the doctor for health check-ups, the signs and symptoms of STD's, proper birth control methods. And don't forget the emotional aspect of being in a relationship or just being sexually used.
2006-06-29 05:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by cricket 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started having sex at 16 with my 15 year old boyfriend. I'm married to him now. We have been together for 18 years, but I think that if you feel the need to have this question answered is because you're not ready to continue to haveing a sexual relationship.
Not to mention that there is a lot of stuff that you may not be aware of, like ; using the right birth control, making your partner wear a condom( even when you take the pill) because he may have an S.T.D ( sexually tranmitted desease), damage to your reputation, and not to mention what you feel like inside. You may feel empty, dissatisfied, ashamed and what if your parents find out? Are they going to be ok with you having sex?
Nay-Nay, I think you're very smart in asking for support for your self, now take in to cosideration what to do with advice given and make a smart choice. You have the rest of your life to have sex!! It does get better with age, experience, and love.
2006-06-29 05:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by JJX MOMMY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 is DEFINITELY toooo young to be having sex. Especially these days with all of the diseases - you have to be very particular about whom you're going to share this precious gift with. And that's exactly what you & your body are - a precious gift! You should stick to your guns & abstain from intercourse at your age. Wait until you're a little older & find someone who loves you & you love in return. Believe me, you'll apreciate the act of love much more if you do. Good luck & God Bless.
2006-06-29 05:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by Beanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to your friends they're telling you to risk your life to have sex. Plus you're fifteen that's really young to even possibly end up pregnant or end up having an STD those things could stop you from enjoying your life.Just keep in your head if your friends told you to jump of the bridge to show that you belong in the crew, would you do it?
2006-06-29 05:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by dance_wazup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! It is too young to be having sex....if your friends think that it is not too young then let THEM have sex...you dont have to just because they are!!! Especially if YOU yourself think that it is too young, then IT IS!!! You are smarter than your friends....let them end up with unplanned pregnancies and STDs...while you are living the life of a young teenager....just because you have had sex twice, doesnt mean that you have to keep having it...be smart, stop!! =)
2006-06-29 05:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is too young to be having sex..You will not only get a name but you have too much to do ,,too much fun and if you get pregnant you won't be able to do all the thngs everyone else is doing.....
I am very serious , live your life , do things that you are supposed to be doing ..You don't want to be saddled with a baby when you are 17..You can have sex later but for now Just enjoy your life.
2006-06-29 05:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is that you can't even drive or vote yet......yes, I think 15 is too young. You should go with what's in your heart....not your friends. In the long run, you will only have your own conscience to answer to. Make sure you are always making choices that you can feel good about!
2006-06-29 05:27:21 · answer #11 · answered by kendalandsam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋