2006-06-29 05:07:23 · 17 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Baby Girl, I am so sorry to hear about your husband. First of all, do you feel that your husband has changed, and will be faithful to you when he gets out, can you forgive, and most of all can you forget. Are there children from this relationship, and if so what is his likely hood of re-offending and you being alone again. Those are the questions you should be asking yourself. If you believe in him and love him, and can forgive and forget, then give him a second chance...You do love him with all your heart don't you! Jail changes a man, hopefully yours will change for the better and realize what a wonderfull wife he has waiting for him at home. I hope everything works out for you, the waiting is the hard part, Take care and God bless. If you want to chat with someone in a similar position you can e-mail me ms_blackdog@yahoo.ca (it is ca....I am in Canada)
2006-06-30 12:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by dawg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dr. Laura Schlesinger once had great advice about when divorce is justified. She called them "the three A's:" Abuse, Addiction or Adultery. It seems that your guy qualifies on the third count. And that's even before you get to the part about jail. I would tend to agree with the persons above who suggest that somebody else is more worthy of your love.
2006-06-29 12:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by lmnop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I put up with that too for 16 yrs!Where's he at now after all those yrs.? With another woman who believes the same crap, lie's I did. One day she will get tires of it just like you will. When he realizes it wont work with you anymore he will move on to the next victim. You are much better being alone and happy than being with the SOB and be miserable. When Mr. right comes along you will realize life can be soooo much better with out him.Let that pony run girlfriend!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-29 12:50:25 · answer #3 · answered by bubbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should divorce him and move on with your life. He didn't love and respect you enough to be true to you or to keep himself out of jail. You deserve more in life and by staying with him your just telling him that everything he has done is fine with you.
2006-06-29 12:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are definitly times where the "til death do we part" rule has exceptions. I think this might be one of them.
2006-06-29 12:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by kiss me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am only going to say this ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER .. IF HE LOVED YOU LIKE HE SAYS HE WOULD OF NOT CHEATED ON YOU .. WHEN PEOPLE CHEAT THEY REALLY DO NOT LOVE THE PERSON THEY ARE WITH ..CAUSE IF THEY DID LOVE YOU , THEY WOULD NOT WANT TO HURT YOU IN THAT WAY , LET HIM ROT IN JAIL AND YOU MOVE ON ..MAYBE HIS GIRL HE CHEATED ON YOU IS VI STING HIM IN THERE .. YOU WOULD NEVER KNOW .
2006-06-29 13:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by blueflowerscs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't stop having sex just because they are in jail....the diseases an amoral creep like that would bring home could take 50 years off your life. You love him that much?
2006-06-29 12:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by gone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like being cheated on? If not, get some self-respect and get out of the marriage.
2006-06-29 12:30:41 · answer #8 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee he sounds like a real winner. Ditch the bast*rd! And find someone who can be there for you and not stuck behind bars. What did he do to get put in there?
2006-06-29 12:12:09 · answer #9 · answered by ♥USMCwife♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You picked the wrong guy, honey. You can get a divorce easily while he's locked up. And don't feel bad about it. He deceived you; now live your life for yourself and dump the Zero!
2006-06-29 12:50:01 · answer #10 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋