are guys worth to be trusted?

Question

i know this guy who is a family friend ever since my childhood.last year we met and he tried to impress me.Finally he proposed and i said yes inspite of the fact that my parents do not allow all this just coz i thought that if i would refuse then he might hurt himself.we talked on the phone when my parents were not at home.he was rude to me on the phone sometimes so i felt that he did not need me.Now when we met again i came to know that he has got some other girlfriend .first i felt that i was not bothered but later i realized that i was hurt.When we talked again i asked him bout hisgirlfriend so he said that she was just a timepass.he fought with her but i forced him to be friends with her again.He tells me that he wants to be really serious bout me so i should tell my mom everythin bout us so that we both can be serious bout each other.I cannot tell my mum anythin cause she will kill me.that guy knows everythin bout her presnt girlfriend but notin bout me.I do not whether 2trust him

Answer 1

All you need to do is to find the right guy who has respect for your feelings and to whom having a girlfriend is not like some time-pass. This guy does not seem to deserve your trust. He has not taken your love and concern seriously. Don't rush into things in a hurry. Wait for some time till your infatuation for this guy fades away. Then you'll probably thank your stars for shedding light on reality. Remember the relationship you have with your parents. Is it worth hurting their love for this useless guy? Your mom will feel hurt if she finds out about the true nature of this guy who seems to be playing with her precious daughter's feelings. Wait. You will find someone who'll love you, cherish you , and be deserving of your trust and whom you can proudly present before your mother.

Answer 2

I can only tell you from experience that I would not trust him because you never know what drama he could bring to you and your relationship. I dealt with this man who I knew for a really long time and he wasn't honest with me from the get up and I had to cut him loose. He was making look really and feel really dumb because I didn't know what he was doing when I wasn't around and I let him go even though it was really hard. You can trust some men but there are those ones that cannot be trusted and it sounds like he is confused about what he wants. That means he is not really sure that he wants to get married even though he says that the other girl is just time to pass. Do not believe that if you do then what happens when he is with her while with you its even harder to deal with. Do not tell your mom. If you have a best friend ask her or him what they think it doesn't mean you have to take their advice.

Answer 3

Oh sweetheart. That is just one guy. Not all guys. He sounds like someone I would avoid. He doesnt seem to have you in his best intrest. Also if he is going to call another woman a 'timepass' then he is not worth it at all. Think of what he may say about you if he says that about her. No you should not trust him. You should forget him and look elsewhere. There are plenty of wonderful men out there, and he is not one of them. I recommend you cut all ties with him, he really sounds bad for you. Re-read your question as if it were someone else writing it, and that way you can see what kind of a man your are speaking of. What advise would you give someone that asked you the same question?

Answer 4

If he has a girlfriend what is he doing proposing to you? Guys are worth being trusted, but you have to find a trustworthy one first and sorry to tell you but from your description, HE'S NOT IT. Sounds like in your case 'mother knows best". You should listen to her. Find a REAL man because he sounds like a flake. Good luck.

Answer 5

Judge him as an individual and if you feel uncomfortable than the trust issue is weighing hard on you. Let him go then because it is hard to over come trust issue with out becoming insecure.

Answer 6

Forget it he shouldn't be trusted. Even though I never had a boyfriend that is the most stupidest thing a boy can do.

Answer 7

if he's rude and dont respect u the way u want him to, then find someone else. there's plenty out there. it may hurt a bit at first, but believe me, u get over it b4 u eat your next meal.

Answer 8

Well I would just tell his girlfriend about all of this and let her deal with him. Guys can be trusted but not that one!

Answer 9

yes some guys can be trusted u just got 2 trust them with your heart

Answer 10

It sounds like he thinks of women as objects. He called that other girl a "pastime?" Women are not hobbies, and anyone who thinks they are deserves to be alone.