sex !!!!!?

Question

i'mgoing to have sex with my bf but i'm nervis what should i do

Answer 1

Wait until your married. It will be so much better, and then you'll be making love, not just acting like animals.

Answer 2

Well, I want to hope that you are at least 16.

Nerves can often make sex difficult or impossible.

If the guy is nervous it can make it difficult to hold and erection or reach orgasm, and if the girl is nervous it may make the action of sex unenjoyable and hard to reach orgasm (which mind you, the first time you have sex its highly likely that you wont reach orgasm, so don't blame yourself or your partner there.)

So, make sure that you and your boyfriend are mature enough to handle the consequences and possible outcomes of having sex.

And please, dont do it because you believe that you are in love. You are sharing something that creates a deep imprint upon a person because most girls have sex and regret it because the boyfriend breaks up or the relationship doesn't work and it makes the girl feel like she wasn't good enough because she gave everything she is to the boy and he left anyway.

Answer 3

Im 15 but here is my advice,Make sure that you ready first take a bath put on nice underwear put on body splash and a nice bra make sure it matches make yourself real appealing wear something easy to come off like a skirt or just a coat lol ..... start of kissing softly make sure that your not f***ing but making love so take it slow tell him how you want it slow in the begginng then a little rough at the end but realx.

Good luck hun

Answer 4

make sure it is just nerves and your head not telling you it isnt ready - sex should be a pleasure and enjoyed by your head, heart, and libido - if you are nervous maybe you are telling yourself you really are not ready.

do what is right - only you know what that is.

PS - i do not know if you are a virgin or not - i just answered this as though you were going to experience for first time with this person.

Answer 5

just relax and try to enjoy it...having sex for the first time is going to hurt but after that its going to be so enjoyable. Sex is so special when its with the person you love.

Answer 6

Hey, you should enjoy having sex with anyone, just protect yourself... Remember, you only live once... But NEVER tell anyone how many sex partners you've had, it's your life, no one should judge it for you. Until then have fun with your best friend, I did. Try to keep it sex only and no mushy stuff like "I Love You"... or sh*t like that...

Answer 7

well, u'd better think abou' it thouroghly... me dad says dat i m not to have a bf untill i've finished university in abou' 10 yrs time. But a little advice, r u very x10000 close to him? if no, better have the courage 2 say 'NO' 2 him...

Answer 8

I'm only 14 but here goes..... if you want to have sex it is ur personal choice. but if u if u do just relax and make him feel good and u'll go there. i haven't but I'm not sure about sex b4 marriage or not so good luck have fun...make sure to tell us what u decide.
kila

Answer 9

Please don't! It's not worth it. You have lots and lots of time to be doing that kind of stuff. Just tell your BF. He will understand. Show each other that there is some meaning in your lives and in your close relationship by NOT DOING IT.

Answer 10

you sound too young to be having sex there are better things in life than sex

Answer 11

If your nervous, then dont, if you still want the stimulations of it use a toy, like a pocket vibrator...