What if nothing makes u happy except him but now u feel like he's gone cuz he hurt u and ur scared of him.It's not him but u just don't wanna ruin that image of him with fights so u wanna be friends but he wanted to stick it thru and u feel like that doesnt help the relationship and is still very distant even as friends but that isn't ruining ur image of him anymore What is it doing?Is he selfish for wanting to fight?Or am I?How do I fix that?
PS this happened a long time ago but I wanna fix it .
Please don't answer unless u have an idea of how to change this we grew up together and were like best friends.We've seen eachother thru everything and were together 5 yrs and he was my first everything and he has my name tattooed but he wants the tattoo but he says he's over me, he has a girl but doesn't plan to marry her so far that I know.I donno maybe cuz we're so close but are we?I'm engaged now and I feel fixed but I need my best friend to talk to.
2006-06-29 04:55:37 · 3 answers · asked by devotion 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you are in love with the guy wou are engaged to, then it is probably better you don't talk to him.
it could cause complications.
but if you are in love with the other, you need to feel that out.
go to him, and see if he wants to give it another chance.
it sounds like the two of you were very close.
he hurt you and your scared of him??? that aint good. you don't need to be with someone you are afraid of.
but iether way, you need to be sure befor you get married.
and if you stick with the marriage, then it would be for the best if you found a female best friend, because take it from a guy, a male that you share your secrets and stuff with, besides the one you are with, will just cause strain on the relationship, and make a huge temptaion, and you might end up doing something the one you ware with would never forgive.
2006-06-29 05:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by my_name_is_what 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-30 06:58:59 · answer #2 · answered by golden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know u said not to answer but what i see here is that you are in love with this guy. he probably feel the same way about you too and he scared to admit it. i have seen movies like that. My advice to you is not to go through to your wedding until you are sure of your feelings. do you want to be his friend or his girlfriend?
2006-06-29 05:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋