have you ever considered putting a tape recorder in his vehicle underneath the seat, i mean we all talk on our cell phones when we are on our way to and from work right, what about following him, there are ways for you to find out trust me, you just need to be smart and opened minded and think of things, when he tells you he going somewhere follow him after he leaves, start asking questions about everything, check his email, his wallet, his call log in his cell phone, sonner or later like useal the truth will reveal itself no matter what, I do think if he was cheating you would have all the signs already and just simply have this unbarable gut feeling inside of you, if you feel that then he is, of course you will feel the distance, his lying, his comeing home late, him turning off the cell phone, all the normal things, if your really worried about hire a private investgator that way he can be on you side if you should have to ever file for divorce or for custdoy becuase these days whoever is the cheater and they can prove he cheated the women gets everything from him, childsupport, alimony, he may even have to continue to par your car insureance and your health insurance i know this for sure, good luck and i hope you find everythihng that you looking for, just prepare yourself for the worse as it may really break your heart to find the truth
2006-06-29 04:55:28
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answered by prettygirl new orleans 2
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A woman knows. Trust what that inner "voice" or "feeling" is telling you. Don't ask others or question him. You are not crazy, there is a reason you are having these suspicions. Remain calm and start taking steps to gather "truth". Spectorsoft makes a great product. Hire a P.I., there is a lot they can do to help. Once you have proof of the truth, you have power. Whether you decide to work it out or otherwise, this will never happen with out the truth. Reconcilliation is possible in many cases. No relationship is pain free. You can do it. Good luck.
2006-06-29 15:07:17
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answered by whostolemyprofile 4
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Well he is what I have to say, if he is always tired, can't get it up, always busy, always has weird excusses not to do things with you, basically not there for little things, smells different, weird numbers on the cell, he's cheating on you. Just be quiet and watch his every move, then that should confirm. Then take action.
2006-06-29 11:53:56
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answered by Anonymous
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Well there is software out there that actually violates the right to privacy, I assume that's what you want though. Do a google search on keyloggers.
2006-06-29 11:49:38
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answered by D 4
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Or how about paranoid, reality checks.
2006-06-29 11:49:50
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answered by rudytute 5
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