just because there is this i use to work with and he keeps comingover and staying for hours at a time. and he wont go home and comes over and just keeps bang on the door we try not to answer the door but dont work. i ask him sevral times not to come over or call but still does it i try not to be a rude person but he is pushing me to that point
2006-06-29 04:45:52 · 15 answers · asked by bobbydennis352005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
say dont come over idk
2006-06-29 04:47:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if u don't want the person over sometimes u have to be blount and maybe a little rude for them to get the picture. U can try and tell him that u think it would be better for everyone if he would call before he cam to see if u will be there. Or just tell him u will call and invite him. Sometimes u have to be mean.
2006-06-29 11:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by ♫♪♥mï®♥♫♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just flat out say "dude i dont want u over ne more" because if hes not getting the message then theres nothing really else u can do. I mean seriously, ya it mite be mean and all but still he needs to kno.
2006-06-29 11:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by Hrscrzy4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call 911 as a disturbance call. Have a cop tell that mofuka to get the fawk away from you.
2006-06-29 11:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by General X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him one last warning -- tell im not to come over anymore or you will have to call the police and have him physicially removed and/or press charges for harrassment.
2006-06-29 11:48:05 · answer #5 · answered by dcbowls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might have to just "be rude" and ask him not to come over anymore.
Are you afraid he might do something? Then get a restraining order. ha ha.
Or is his friendship really worth salvaging so that you can't be rude?
2006-06-29 11:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by jess99tx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u have to ignore his bang on the door cos when u even tell him to call he doesnt, best thing to do is to tell him how its inconvenient when he comes around.
2006-06-29 11:52:45 · answer #7 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk seriously to him.....tell him not to come anymore or you will call the police.
2006-06-29 12:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with him... and tell him nicely that you have asked him to stay away and if he cant obey your wishes you may have to get a restraining order agaisnt him.
2006-06-29 11:49:33 · answer #9 · answered by smile i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been nice about it so far, you may have to be rude to get your point across.
2006-06-29 11:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by Tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start going to their house all the time and do what they do to you, then tell them.
2006-06-29 11:47:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋