I was dating this guy for about 6 months and before we met I used to go to the club every Friday night when I was living in Colorado. But once I moved back to Florida I stopped going to the club because I really don’t like clubs here in Jacksonville and I was pretty burnt out on the whole club scene. So I told him that I really didn’t do clubs. Well every now then (although he knew that I didn’t like going) he still asked me to go. Most of the time we were out in his whip so I went, because I was with him. And I would dance he would get mad because he would think I was trying to get with some other guy….(WHATEVA!!) Well just recently I reunited with a friend of mine from high school she asked me to go to Latin night with her on a Friday at some club called Elixir. Since I was mad at him at the time (we had a huge argument and he called me out my name) I went to get my mind off what was going on. I ended up not having a good time and even hooked up with him after the club. ( I know stupid to go back) So that next weekend was my birthday and my friend called me up again on a Thursday and asked if I wanted to go to the same club we went to Friday night where she could possibly put me down with some one who would help me with my dancing career. I didn’t say no (I LOVE TO DANCE) and went. I told him about both times I went to the club and he still got mad because he said now that I have my friend all I’m going to do is become a club hoe… because I’m going to do when I get mad at him is run to the club…( I hope you are laughing as much as I am right now) My question is if you go to the club to dance (and only to dance) does that make you a hoe?? Just because I choose to go out with my friend does that makes me a hoe now??? I’m not with the fool anymore but I really need to know…And now that I’m single NO I DON’T PLAN ON RUNNING BACK TO THE CLUB…..
2006-06-29 04:43:37 · 18 answers · asked by ? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
How does going to a club make one a garden implement?
2006-06-29 04:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well, in my opinion, going to a club to dance and socialize does not make any girl a "ho". If you are going with the express purpose of finding someone to "hook up" with for the night--then yes, this would make you a "ho". Keep in mind, though, that most guys (good or bad) will judge you for this. It is a double standard that time and progress just can't seem to get around. If you are seen in a bar or club, regardless of your own innocence, you may be classed a "ho" by most of the guys there. It is not fair, but that is the way alot of men think.
2006-06-29 04:48:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer. This guy's pathetic and insecure, and he's trying to make you feel bad about yourself. If he really wanted to discuss legitimate reasons why he didn't like you going, ok, fine. But to equate going to clubs to being a "ho" is pretty lame. When/if he wanted to go to a club, would that make him a pimp?
2006-06-29 04:49:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going to the club doesnt make anyone a hoe...It's how you carry yourself... Enjoy yourself and act like a Lady...Have fun at the Club ...
2006-06-29 04:46:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going to the club just for fun and dancing doesn't make you a ho.
2006-06-29 04:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's really long and I didn't read any of it but going to the club does not make u a whore. Sleeping with anybody other than ur husband makes u a whore according to the bible.
2006-06-29 04:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by Who me? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just going to clubs, no. HOOKING UP at or after a club, yes.
2006-06-29 04:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by zippythejessi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no going to club is not beng a whore, but in countries here in europe a black girl or gals going clubbing are called prostitutes.
2006-06-29 04:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it dosent a club hoe a club hoe leaves w/ a stranger at night i go out all the time w/o my man he dosent like it either....i still go he needs to learn how to trust me more...same w/ your man...
2006-06-29 04:47:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell that stupid mutha fucka that if u could go wit him u can go wit ur friend.He's also insecure bcuz he can't trust himself around women and he thinks the same about you and men!!!Get ur career going Miss Diva and he'll call u worse!!!Do wut u do,like wut u do,and love u 4 u,not him!!!He ain't going nowhere.As long as u take that **** u will begin 2 feel worthless and insecure about urself.And end up, fat,lazy,and a baby mama of his, wit 6 kids!!!
2006-06-29 04:53:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋