i am a teenage female who wants to grow up to become a woman. but there is no one to teach me how to grow up to become a woman. i am almost an adult. and i really need to grow up. First of all i would really like to know what is a woman. and what do a woman do. Second i would like to know just how do you grow up. How to treat a man and all of that. I do not know these types of things. Could someone please please help me????
2006-06-29 04:21:58 · 17 answers · asked by Alicia D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
let me put it this way i am 17 and a senior in high school. my mom is around but she really does not want me to grow up because she feels as if she is going to lose her baby or something. i sometime dont act my age and sometime i do. i just want to break free. but once after i break free i do not know i to stand my ground and do things on my own. so how can i do it. i can i grow up and be on my own two feet.
2006-06-29 04:50:09 · update #1
Each women is different, you life will teach you the lessons to be the women you will become
2006-06-29 04:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by marhaschmidt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't enough space to answer your whole question. If you do not have a female role model to teach you how to act as you grow older I suggest looking for someone at a church group as a youth leader. They will show you how to treat others, yourself and will touch on relationships with guys and how you should behave. Eventually you will just start to become a woman, it doesn't happen over night and there is no particular thing you do to make yourself grow up. Growing up simply takes time. In that time you will learn new things. You can try to make sure the people you learn them from are respectable and reliable people who will show you the right way. You will make mistakes along the way, but thats ok...that is part of being a woman too. So, there is too much for you to learn than could be written here. We can't impart all the knowledge we have as women in one single answer...but I can tell you this- don't try to grow up too fast, enjoy your age and not knowing things is perfectly fine and normal it will all come in time. The way to do it right is to listen to women who are caring and understanding and willing to teach you how to act as the Lord would want you to as you grow up. God Bless.
2006-06-29 11:30:49 · answer #2 · answered by missesbean 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no wrong and right answer everyone is diffrent. You will learn every piece of advice as you walk the real path of life. From a man's point of view. Here is my advice.
Be yourself
Love your partner
Don't get involved in any type of gossip.
Polish your sexual skills.
Be a good mother
Be a good wife
Be a good sister
Be a good Aunt
Be a good friend
But most and for most Alway be in peace.
2006-06-29 11:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by BATISTA 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, what a question. First off, why are you trying to grow up so fast? It will happen in due time. Relax and enjoy the fact that you don't have all the adult responsibilities to worry about.
2006-06-29 11:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With passage of time. You know, time and tide wait for none. The lessons you want to learn are all practical in nature, how to impart you when you are far away. But I feel tempted to be your teacher, but you know what man proposes God disposes. Helpless. You just wait for the opportune moment to arrive, it will all happen as if programmed.
2006-06-29 11:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you cant ask someone to teach you how to become a woman..age does not determine wether u r a woman or not...it experience..the more you face challanges in your life the more matured you are...just relax and c'mon....who doesnt enjoy being a teenager? being a woman means a lot of responsibility u know... so just see how it goes..
2006-06-29 11:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by nat_reyou 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's something that comes naturally. Teenage girls naturally become women. You go to school, enhance you education/knowledge, join different organizations and clubs, meeting new people. People grow up naturally.
2006-06-29 11:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by coconut 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
we grow in time and hopefully strength if we eat well. but being a woman just happens when you fall in love and have children. it Means being responsible for yourself and those around you. many children are doing this even before they are fully grown. I am sorry you seem to have no female companions but even so I am sure it will come to you with time
2006-06-29 11:27:50 · answer #8 · answered by Mim 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt trade places with u for anything, growing up is TOUGH! especially these days!
FIRST and foremost, DO NOT focus on boys!
FOCUS ON YOURSELF!
-what are your goals/dreams?
-figure out a plan to meet your goals/dreams (college, job)
-what kind of person do u want to be?
-make good choices for yourself
-READ READ READ books on this subject
-look for inspiration from other women u admire (like ur Mom)
-take pride in yourself!
-RESPECT yourself!
-demand respect from others! but u must respect yourself FIRST in order for others to respect you.
-rely on your Mom for support, guidence, and love.
-life moves FAST!, the older u get the faster it moves, SLOW DOWN! and enjoy life now!
-STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF! your vaules and beliefes
-NEVER look for a man/boy to make u feel good about yourself, to support you, or validate you.
2006-06-29 12:58:36 · answer #9 · answered by 2 cents 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its all hormones and experience... you grow into it and will go through the pain and pleasure being a woman. surely. just be patient
2006-06-29 11:26:03 · answer #10 · answered by n9flyboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋