if he was ever that nice guy?How do you know how to figure it out when he's so distant and you wanna be friends again but somewhere in there you were once together?
"I'm sickntired of always being sickntired"
2006-06-29 04:13:33 · 9 answers · asked by devotion 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
But the reason u were hurt him was he was very distant , and u know he didn't cheat but u wonder really if he was thinkin about another and you thought it would be bettter if u were friends again.
2006-06-29 04:25:06 · update #1
well someone hurt me yesterday now im not as nice as i was but i have never hurt a nice guy lol
2006-06-29 04:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by skaterguy8675 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i once dated this guy. he was my first boyfriend and we dated 1 1/2 years before i broke it off. that was about 8-9 years ago. he was a nice guy. i broke it off because i wanted to be free a little bit. he got a tiny bit bitter...lol, and became a not very nice guy. now i am happily married and this guy and my husband are very good friends. they are able to be friends because of all the time i put into being friends with this guy. sometimes we would ignore eachother for years, other times we would confide in eachother.
you can't push this guy into being a nice guy, you can't always be there for him because you have your life, but you can maintain a now-and-then relationship. if he's a nice guy, his true colors will eventually come through.
2006-06-29 04:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by onlylove41 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i'm think of myself as being pretty nice and this girl who is also nice kinda hurt me recently. i don't think well ever be friends at all. I will try to forgive. When feeling are envolved once in a while people get hurt and can never be friends. try to move on.
2006-06-29 04:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by sns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a woman hurts me she never see's that "nice guy" again, only the a$$hole that we all have in us.
She hurt/stabbed the nice guy in me.....WHY would I EVER want to show her that side of me again? So she can hurt it again? HAHAHAHA, yea right!!
Fool me once....your fault
Fool me twice....my fault
PS - the world has less and less "nice guys" because women actually get a kick out of hurting them, watching them in pain, etc etc etc. Like a revenge for the men that used and abused them even though us nice guys never did anything to them.
Women only have other women to blame for the major decrease in "nice guys" in this world.
2006-06-29 04:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You burnt that bridge when you hurt him. Why did you hurt him?
Some people will never get over being hurt and some do. You must of really hurt him bad. "Bad person" you are! Karma baby it will all come back to you eventually. Be an nice person.
2006-06-29 04:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by daanzig 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have, not meaning to...and he was distant and didn't seem like that "nice guy" for a long time..but he was just hurt...you need to give it time and don't push anything...hopefully he'll pull through, even if it takes a long time...just give him time to heal.
2006-06-29 04:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by A.S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't secondguess your decisions. if you made the right one, you should be thinking about something else. don't worry, everyone changes a little when they come out of a relationship. if htey didn't they would continue to make teh same mistakes.
2006-06-29 04:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL YOU SHOULD HAVE THOUGHT OF THE CONSEQUENCES BEFORE YOU HURT YOUR NICE GUY. HE MAY OR MAY NOT FORGIVE YOU BUT I BET HE WILL NOT FORGET IT.
2006-06-29 04:16:45 · answer #8 · answered by BAG LADY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are evil
2006-06-29 04:16:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋