I have a very close family friend which whom we spend a great deal of time with. He is 21 years old and when we first met him, had a girlfriend and a son by him and his girlfriend. They had been a couple since high school, they are both 21. Well, His race is white while hers is korean. here's where the problem sqeezes itself in, We'll call HIM michael, and HER torey. Well in some way or another things werent up at the highest point in their relationship and she decided to up and leave with their son and they both went back over to korea which is where Torey's Family lives. His son was 10 months, Michael is only 21 himself and has been with Torey like i said since high school, so he knows no other love for any other. Their son is now almost 22 months!! He has not seen either one of them and she lead him to believe that there was a chance of her and their son coming back. May not have been a big chance, but still to this day he calls her his girlfriend ( as he stutters )
2006-06-29
03:28:53
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I truly would like to understand the way he is feeling but its not me its happening to so, At the same time it okay for him to feel that way also, naturally anyone would i believe. Okay well, Michael is not on the birth certificate and his son does not have his last name, So their in Korea and He is here and SO SO SO SO deeply misses his son and the younger days as a father that he has so far missed, That wound may never be heeled. I guess just recently Torey's parents ( from Korea ) Show up here saying that they came to get her belongings and that Torey and their son are still back in Korea. Well Torey's father works for the government there if i understand correctly, and on the news it was just saying that north korea is threatning south korea. Honestly I really dont see her parents (specially with her dad working with the gov. ) leaving her and the baby back in korea while they proceed to come here to get her things and while north and south korea are threatning.
2006-06-29
03:38:26 ·
update #1
I guess that ever since he hadnt been put on the birth certificate, While she was here, Any time he asked if she would go to get a paternity test so there was proof, She would always come up with some exuse, it never failed, So that is why a paternity test hadnt taken place. I have seem this man completely break down, He has unfortunetly had just one thing after another happen to him and all this wonderful man wants is to be able to be involved with his son, and to have his son grow up with him involved in his life. He wants to be able to be there for all the new things his baby does and for all the new things his son learns. Im thinking that they all might be here from korea, I just really dont see her parents letting her stay there with the baby. He is just heart broken and tired. He deserves to have the privledge of having his son around him. Is there ANY WAY whats so ever that someone could maybe suggest that could even in the slightest way point us in a direction
2006-06-29
04:35:36 ·
update #2