should i be ashamed?

Question

I'm 5'4 and weigh 154 im 28 so its not like im young or anything. Its really hard to find clothes for my size should i be ashamed of my belly sticking out(its not that big but it does stick out most of my fat is in my butt and hips) not hanging out with like skin showing but a kinda tight shirt sticking out I hope you guys know what I mean. PLease let nme know

by the way i have tried to diet and exercise just seems to be taking longer this time(after baby and tubal) after the baby before this one i went from a 14 to an 7 in 3 months so its not that im fat and lazy. just taking longer this time around. and I do wear t-shirts that are my size but its been really hard to find tanks!!

Answer 1

No you shouldn't be ashamed. It's just a little belly. I would probably be self conscious if skin were showing, but you have it covered.

Have you tried petite stores/sections? Maybe that would help you find clothes easier.

Answer 2

Don't be ashamed, be concerned for your health! Excess belly fat is linked with heart disease and other issues. 28 is VERY young to be facing health issues that can be solved by getting in shape. You can wear whatever you want regardless but, if you want to look and feel your best, lose a bit of weight by exercising a little 3 times a week. Being in good shape and healthy is the best thing you can do for yourself, a gift to yourself and an investment in your future life, which hopefully is a long one!

Answer 3

If fat is sticking out you need a bigger size clothes. There shouldn't be fat showing that because that makes you look bigger than you really are. Sometimes when you have body issues it takes a bit longer to find things that fit you properly, but the clothes are out there and you'll look and feel so much better when you take the time to find them. Good luck

Answer 4

Honey there is no need to be ashamed of. You can get your clothes stitched from a good tailor. As far as your belly sticking out, this means you need to work out. If you don't find time to hit the Gym, then you can go for long walks and be a bit calorie conscious. Even a fat person can be healthy provided he/she eats healthy low-cal food, and work out regularly. Wear clothes accordingly.....

Answer 5

If it is making you uncomfortable, which it seems to be doing, you need to change your fashions so they make you feel confident. Belts are in right now-how would your outfits look if you belted them? Just an idea. I don't think it would be something I would look at or feel looks bad, but I'm going on your feelings. It is important for you to feel good in what you are wearing. Also, you might consider checking with a tailor just to see how much alterations would cost. It might not cost that much and if you felt better and your clothes fit better, it's worth the investment. I hope it works out for you!

Answer 6

There are plenty of clothes that are designed to hide belly and hip flaws. Especially with the long flowing tops that are in style now. I have the same problem. Find shirts that are loose and flowing. Wal-mart has a ton of them.

Answer 7

Well I am an old hippie I say wear whats comfortable.But tight on a fat belly is not attractive you do not have to go with the in trends be unique in your style

Answer 8

Be ashamed, be very ashamed. Kidding I just wanted 2 points

Answer 9

You shouldn't feel ashamed, but you should find clothes that will compliment you, not set you up for ridicule.

Answer 10

no need 2 b ashamed.. bt try workin out n b in shape