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hi! last time i had my period was end of May, that was too early for June.. then on june me and my bf made love just twice the whole month.. i still dont got my period now its almost july 1... what ya think? is it just stress or what..help :( i m really worried.......i know we shoudve used condoms but the last time he wasnt able to get one.. :(

2006-06-29 02:52:47 · 19 answers · asked by troubled_woman85 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

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the chances are very good. The withdrawal method doesn't work. The reason being, men have pre-ejaculate secretions that contain sperm. So even before he withdraws, it is likely that his sperm is already inside you.

2006-06-29 02:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by julz 7 · 0 0

Withdrawal Method
Here is advice:


Precum is just as likely to get a women pregnant as ***. And precum can come out at anytime during intercourse, not just right before ejaculation. The pull out method is not a good form of birth control. It may lower your changes a tiny bit, but only because less sperm is getting inside, not because it's a good form of birth control. It is still very likely for the women to get pregnant. Please pick another form of birth control if you don't wish to become a parent. Hope this helps answer your question.

In addition to the above comments, the withdrawl method puts a lot pressure on the man to time the withdrawl. Sometimes in the bliss of the moment the guy may want to wait one more second. One the ejaculation starts, there is no "one more second."

When a guy gets an erection all the blood from the brain flows into the penis. Any promises made in foreplay just suffer and die of oxygen depervation. He's not the one who gets pregnant - you do. Don't use this method and don't believe anything you hear in foreplay. Be smart.

Another "in addition." I can not speak for everyone, but it is my experience that every time my husband's penis is stimulated he releases precum. It is also my understanding that more times than not, precum does contain active sperm. My husband and I are fine with becoming pregnant, and have accepted that pregnancy is a possiblity from month to month so long as we use the withdrawal method. Unless you are ready to make the same acceptance, I would not rely on this method. My advice, as contradictary as it may be in the eyes of many, just wait till you are married.


How effective is the withdrawal method?

There isn’t very much information about how good the withdrawal method is when used as birth control. Some research shows that out of 100 women whose partner is using withdrawal, about 80 will not get pregnant.

There ya go!! A little internet research! Good luck! Buy a pregnancy test.

Oh and in response to: "We would of used a condom, but he couldn't get one" Not a good excuse. If he had a quarter he could of got one out of a gas station bathroom!

2006-06-29 03:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by lil_gabby_2003 2 · 0 0

Supposedly pulling out is like 72% effective. The method doesn't work 28% of the time is b/c of pre *** and/or the fact that the guy didn't pull out fast enough and got some on the outside. You could just be stressed waiting for it so that's making it take longer. Or you're part of the 28% that got pregnent. However, you should just take a pregnency test then you won't be worried anymore. Don't take my word for it... but sometimes even when ppl are trying to get pregnent and actually ejaculate inside it doesn't even happen. So I wouldn't be too worried. Also, drink alot of water.

2006-06-29 03:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The chance of becoming pregnant are there I think people forget that semen has sperm in it to so even if he doesn't ejaculate in you there is still sperm present. But I too use the pull out method and it worked for almost 4 years. Until we were ready to have another child which only took us 1 month to get there. Take a test to be on the safe side

2006-06-29 03:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by Brooke H 1 · 0 0

Actually if it was the end of May it is only the end of June still time honey. But of course you can get pregnant with that method. It's almost as easy as leaving it in. During intercourse sperm are ejected out of his penis the entire time not as much as the wad but enough. So next time if you can't get a condom and aren't ready for kids ABSTAIN

2006-06-29 02:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by Kookie M 5 · 0 0

if I were you I would go to the drug store and get a pregnancy test just to be sure. you can get pregnant without even having sex even if all you are doing is fooling around with no cloths on. he may pull out when he is ready to ejaculate but there is the pre-ejaculation that also carries sperm that you have to worry about. It is possible that it could be stress related but ask yourself this, have you been under more then usual stress this last month?

2006-06-29 03:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by Elizabeth O 2 · 0 0

Over the course of 1 year, about 27 out of 100 typical couples who rely on withdrawal to prevent pregnancy will have an accidental pregnancy.

2006-06-29 02:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

WELL YOU COULD HAVE USED A CONDOM...HOW COME YOU AREN'T ON SOME KIND OF BIRTH CONTROL? BUT EVEN THOUGH HE MAY WITHDRAW THEIR IS STILL A POSSIBLITY THAT A LITTLE BIT OF SPERM MIGHT HAVE STILL GOTTEN IN YOU AND SOME FEMALES CAN ALSO GET PREGNANT OFF OF THE PRE-NUT...BUT YOU PROBABLY ARE JUST STRESSING WAIT A FEW DAYS AND TAKE A PREGNANCY TEST IF YOUR PERIOD STILL DOESN'T COME.

2006-06-29 02:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by SexyChocolate 2 · 0 0

The "withdrawal method" isn't a birth control method. It is a myth. Yes, you sure could be pregnant. If you and your bf aren't old enough to use birth control wisely, maybe you aren't old enough to be having sex.

You should go see a doctor. Even if you aren't pregnant, and dr. can figure that out easily, he can get you started on some birth control.

2006-06-29 03:02:52 · answer #9 · answered by mar 4 · 0 0

If he's not able to get a condom, you shouldn't have sex.

Withdrawal is not at all an effective birth control method. A single drop of seminal fluid can contain enough sperm for you to get pregnant.

You need to go and get a pregnancy test kit or visit your local Planned Parenthood. www.plannedparenthood.com.

2006-06-29 02:57:43 · answer #10 · answered by CarlaCCC 5 · 0 0

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