What should I do about this? I am trying 2 divorce my wife and another woman that I have met treats me like and wants me to be with her. I am not divorced yet and I would go want to know if I should go with this other woman or wait until I am dovorced? More details if u im me or constantly write me.
2006-06-29 02:38:19 · 44 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-07-12 16:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by Buddhabot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, HOW are you Trying to divorce your wife? Have you already filed papers? Have you received an uncontested hearing date? Has she moved on too? Be up front with your wife. If you really don't want the marriage anymore then go ahead and begin dating others but don't expect much from the first relationship after the divorce. They rarely work because you aren't over your wife. Rebound relationships suck. You will cause friction with your wife if you date now but that's a chance only you can decide to take. You know her better than I do obviously.
2006-06-29 02:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by sweetypie9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD WAIT UNTIL YOU are divorced. No woman wants to Date A MAN that still has baggage. you need to be free before you start something new. If that other woman really loves you then she can wait until you are in the clear, to be together. Because god Forbid, if anything ever happens to you, your Wife is still getting everything. So the best thing to do is wait until you and your new woman can be together in peace, because I am here to tell you that your wife is not going to make this easy, because she still has something to gain while you are still married, and be careful because while going through your divorce she can cause problems in your other relationship. so if you really care about this other woman, wait she will still be there.....
2006-07-12 07:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by Shonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i live around a military base and my daughter is married to a guy in the marine corp. and this happens all the time the guy leaves and the wife cheats and she ends up leaving her husband and visa versa i think you should divorce your wife before you go with this other woman are you sure this is what you want and maybe you shouldnt of been married in the first place because if you would do this to her you will continue to do it to another woman so just be single and one day you will not have anyone
2006-06-29 02:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by readyhead42@yahoo.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right! You should wait until you are divorced. A divorce can be very stressful and leave lots of emotional ties exposed. Why would you want to drag this new woman through all your emotional baggage?
2006-07-12 07:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello ! I would wait till I was away frm my wife and not living with her and in the middle of the divorce tht would be fine,Tell the other in a honest way what your doing and let her decide if she still wants to hang out! Note! your on the rebound and its better to wait on another relationship till much later.Your odds are not good with the other gal,good luck!
2006-06-29 02:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. Get divorced first and be by yourself for a while. There are plenty of clean up women in the military when the time is right you will find someone new.
2006-07-12 13:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by Jo Mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the other woman needs to running far away from you! If you cheated on your wife with her. What makes her so special or think you won't do it to her?
The proof is in the pudding...You are still married and trying to be with someone else besides your wife. You don't need to post a question like that on here..You know what you should be doing!
2006-06-29 02:44:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until your divorced and give yourself some time to find out what you truly want out of life. Going from the frying pan into the fire is a sure way to get burned.
2006-07-12 17:22:35 · answer #9 · answered by fallenmoonlight0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not knowing your situation I can only give you first hand expierence. If she loves you and the situation will allow do wait... The hurt and pain that you cause by cheating is something that is very hard to get over. The pain of divorce is hard enough. At least give her the respect of waiting..
2006-07-11 20:58:38 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends on what state you live in, the laws are contently changing it might be smart just to wait get the divorce over with. Is the grass really greener on the other side ???
2006-07-11 20:58:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋