What is a women to do? I don,t know if he is cheating or not. I don't want to lose he and then again a don't want to play the fool. Help...........
2006-06-29 02:36:26 · 11 answers · asked by sister 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He isn't unhappy with you but he's facing some pressurised or tensions recently which he might spite you. Is he running his own business? Well, I don't know but if he does, he may have facing some difficulties.
If your husband is unhappy with you, he will not wait for 4 years and bore with you 2 lovely children and he could just walk out from you. Have a talk to him and find out what caused him unhappy and try to find a solution if you can.
2006-06-29 02:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello! Im sorry your husband said tht to you! With kids in 4 yrs its hard on a marriage ,men get overwhelmed alot of attention they use to get they dont anymore the kids do.So its natural if they can get all tht attention elsewhere they will take it.So I would listen to what he says.I would try to rekindle what u had before the kids get a sitter and go out every weekend and put a mass of attention on him ,like do all the things he likes just like you were on make all over again,Put the kids second ,another thing get yourself fixed up clothes ,hair,weight,ect you will feel better for it.Dont let yourself go to pot cause of the kids or you cant blame him .Its good for the kids tht you take care of yourself and your marriage.I see wives at the store with there kids and good grief there so into the kids they have gained weight,they wear a sloppy sweatshirt and tennisshoes in fact my son can pick all housewives in the store and which are wrking and single.So just look at yourself sometime and if you have done this ,Would you be happy to come home to her?
2006-06-29 10:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not cheating he is unhappy, hello he told you that. Now the thing that you do is ask him why? Him telling you that is like a warning that he wants or has considered cheating find out how he feels and make it better, we have to make you women feel better all the time. Ladies think we are unemotional swines who never need to be told "You look sexy" or "you know I have never been happier than I am with you" is it to hard to get from you what ou expect from us, and then when WE say we are not happy you think we are cheating. BE HIS WIFE AND MAKE HIM HAPPY IF YOU LOVE HIM!
2006-06-29 09:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by Best answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask him y he is not Happy..... and take it form there if he no longer want to be with Then U dont need him... Also If it's for another women " It's better the devil u know, then the devil u dont know"..... so hen might end up losing..... and regreting to have ever left u
2006-06-29 09:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by •°♥Ms. SeXy♥°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a vacation by yourself. Take his credit cards and leave the kids behind. Don't tell him where you are going. Give hime a wake up call. He is a whiner.
He thinks he has you under control. Show him your ***. He will get over himself.
2006-06-29 10:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication, honesty and respect are very important in a relationship. My husband was not happy, but if we had communicated honestly and showed each other respect earlier in our marrige we could be in a better place now. Councelling can be very useful (and it is not easy), but honest communication is key!
2006-06-29 09:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by Eve C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Specifics...you need to go for the cause. It might not be you. Depression is not an unusual condition these days...especially when someone feels overwhelmed. Do not despair. Investigate.
2006-06-29 09:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him why he is not happy and what i could do to make him happy.I also would ask him if he wanted to leave
2006-06-29 10:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume there was a reason he wasn't happy... maybe help him work on why he's unhappy?
2006-06-29 09:39:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's your choice but this for sure you married a jerk and an a..hole
there is life out there go for it leave the jerk
2006-06-29 09:40:45 · answer #10 · answered by lepactodeloupes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋