2006-06-29 02:30:38 · 8 answers · asked by aile_rockzzz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Mar gave u GREAT advice!
every relationship has potential for teaching us something about who we are, why we chose this person to be in a relationship with, and what we liked/disliked about the person/relationship.
learn what u can from it, and move on, ive learned its never good to try n go back, if things were bad, they probably will be the same if u get back together again.
FOCUS ON YOURSELF! take this time as ME time, be selfish, treat yourself good, make good choices that will bring u happiness and peace, and this person's memory will fade in time, as u build yourself and self esteem.
-make good choices for yourself
-respect yourself
-know yourself
-what do u want out of life?
-have goals and dreams
-and a plan to accomplish them
-and KNOW that u do NOT need a partner/relationship to complete you!
2006-06-29 02:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by 2 cents 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ah, life sure hurts sometimes. We have all been there. Do you have other friends you can do things with? Volunteer somewhere to help others? Keeping busy can help you not think about him so much.
Sometimes when we get lonely it is easy to glorify a person's memory and forget about the bad things that happened in the relationship. Maybe try journaling. Write down the good things and the bad things about the relationship. Try to learn from this relationship, things that you would like different next time.
2006-06-29 09:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by mar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about him even though it is hard. Keep yourself busy by going out with friends. Go and visit family members or just get into your car and go for a ride to the mall or even just to walmart anything to keep yourself busy. Eventually he will come off of your mind but you have to help the process. Stop letting him bring you down like this. As they always there are more fish in the sea and you are not going to find them if you are to busy crying over him. STOP being a couch potato and get out.
2006-06-29 09:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by crystal and tommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how it was that you broke up, but before that there undoubtedly were some good times, when you appreciated the good qualities you saw in the relationship and in your boyfriend. That ability you have to recognize the best things in others, and to be a caring person, are, in turn, wonderful qualities about you. The ability to form attachments, to love, makes you a special person--never, never lose that strength. If you are persistently bothered by memories, please talk to a parent, religious leader, counselor or teacher. Best of luck to you.
2006-06-29 09:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by EXPO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop dwelling on him; get out and live you life. Have fun; do something nice for someone else; go on dates; hang out with friends. If you were in a long relationship with this person, it will take some time to get him out of your system but it will get easier as time passes.
2006-06-29 09:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by truly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy for the things which dont happen in life. Love ur parents and love the things around u like Friends, Nature, parents...
Forget the past n be happy...
2006-06-29 11:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by Joyce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time helps. Better to try to focus in other aspects of your life, like job, education, health and of course image. Wait for a better person to show up. Don´t rush. It is allways better you to take care of yourself than to wait for others to make you happy.
2006-06-29 09:41:44 · answer #7 · answered by vantuil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a great idea!! Go and buy Fantasia Barrino's "Free Yourself" cd, if it got me through it can get anyone through.
2006-06-29 09:57:40 · answer #8 · answered by J-Bo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋