I keep hearing about how most people go there to "hook-up" with old flames, and just thinking about it pisses me off. Please tell me your stories of disaster or are there some people out there just innocently looking up people just to say "hi". I am skeptical .
2006-06-29 02:22:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I wouldn't really worry about this situation. He is probably trying to find some of his old guy friends. I know plenty of people who go there just to see if someone they hung out with signed up. It's probably nothing to really get upset about. Maybe if this bothers you all that bad then you need to just tell him "Honey I don't mind you looking up your old buddies from school, but I am worried because I just don't want you to get caught up in an old flame that you used to have. Please tell me that I don't have anything to worry about". And if this don't work and you are still worried just go to your history on the computer and it will take you everywhere that he has been. But try not to worry to much because it's probably nothing.
2006-06-29 03:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I went there once, just to see how many old classmates had used it. How long has he been out of school? Who would take the chance that the hot girl from 15/20/25 years ago is still hot? That's crazy. Don't worry about it. Maybe he's just looking for some old buddies he used to play sports or be in a band with.
2006-06-29 09:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am married and i visit classmates.com every once in a while. i go there because i am curious what people are doing in there lives now and hoping to say hi to some people i haven't talked to in years. sure it's always good to hear if an old flame is doing well, but i'm not there to hookup with them and i make that very clear
2006-06-29 11:42:37 · answer #3 · answered by jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to cure your worries is to get really involved - the next time he goes online just say, hmmm.... that Shelly there, what did she used to look like - and then ask him to get out his old yearbook and you two can compare pics together and maybe he can share some insight with you on some old friends. You can also look at some of the guys from his class and act really curious and into them... that may get him to thinking! (Everyone looks horrible in their high school photos, so, get his yearbook and ease your mind.)
2006-06-29 09:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by ncstacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so worried he married you didn't he ? . Presumably as you know he visits it ,he's told you that ?The only time you need to worry is if he becomes secretive about what he doing, but it seems to me the main issue here is that your insecure or you would not being asking the question, ask yourself why this is so ?or have your friends been putting doubt in your mind?Whichever i doubt very much you have anything to worry about whatsoever
2006-06-29 09:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by okayalder62 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look up old classmates too. It's interesting to see what they're doing now. I wouldn't worry. Life's too short to worry about things like that.
2006-06-29 09:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by donna f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Just ask him to be open about it. If he's not then........U might have a concern.
2006-06-29 09:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by dadamndude225 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.. dont you worry your hubby isn't a kid anymore he knows what he's doin i suppose..
2006-06-29 09:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by @>-VyNe--- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, leave him be
friends are friends stay out
2006-06-29 09:26:18 · answer #9 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋