What can I give to my partner of 10yrs, who's libido has disapered, with her permission that is?

Question

My better half has gone off the boil. We both still love each other, we had a good sex life, but it very suddenly fizzeled out. Does Viagra work for women?

Answer 1

If its down to total loss of libido she needs to find out why and get it sorted. It can be caused by some prescription meds, depression and other things. Get that fixed.

Answer 2

No studies have shown that Viagra works for women. Maybe your partner has gotten bored with the sex life that you have. Not with you but the acts themselves. You need to talk to her and find out what she is feeling about the sex life. Also, you need to think about her age and if this is a normal stage of a women's life. In the 30's, sex life kind of becomes put on the back burner. Not that it goes away, but its not the most important. In the late 30's to the late 40's, she could be going through menopause. That will have a huge effect on the sex. Stress, pain and depression could be other factors too. Just talk to her and see where she is and what she is feeling. It could be something as simple as needing a change and maybe adding some new techniques and maybe adult "aids". If that is the case, visit www.adamandeve.com to purchase some of those aids.

Answer 3

not in the same way, but often with women, a lowering sex drive is an indication of other things. Have her go to her doctor and get a full physical. Also, it could be a lowering in self esteem because she is aging, had kids, gained weight. Also stress and a lack of intimacy would also do it. Start with a physical and a lot of compliments from you. Make sure she knows how sexy you think she is.

Answer 4

poor sex is usually the end result of one of many things... a health issue is top of the list...is she depressed, going through menopause, loosing or gaining weight? get a complete physical exam- with blood work- could be a hormone or thyroid imbalance...how is your relationship besides the sex....is there time for each other, do you have outside interest other than each other, is there possible cheating going on( i hope not) there are also gay friendly counseling available in most good sized communities....seek medical help first...and be honest...doctors are nonjudgmental, mine is a hetero male, and we have a great patient doctor relationship.

Answer 5

don't keep on about it , try surprising her with a cosy night it don't worry if sex don't take place be kind, speak nice to her play around a bit make time for her turn off the telly take the phone off the hook, just mess about a bit,have a laugh that's a great way to communicate. who knows she might think you cant be bothered with her anymore. dim the lights use your imagination good luck

Answer 6

If it very suddenly fizzled out the it could very suddenly come back.
Strawberries and oysters are good foods
Foot rubs can be very sensual
Time alone with champagne and no distractions works well for me

Answer 7

honey you need to go to
www.luvntime.com or www.pleasureplace.com
and find new ways or toys that could make the relationship better,I think what happens over time is that we have tendience to get use to our partner's love making but we have to remember that change is good,Try something new to make the love making refreshing again.
I hope that this works

Answer 8

My sex drive usually improves if I get a good amount of exercise. I also find that my birth control lowers it.

Answer 9

take her out to a lovely country hotel.. nice candelight meal... hold hands walking through the fields... tell her loads of times that you love her.. make her feel like a queen and she will feel much better and therefore feel more like loving you....

Answer 10

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Viagra

I think viagra is there to primarily help men with erectile disfuntion... but i have a feeling that ther is viagra for women...