2006-06-29 02:17:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hell no it's not just you. I was unfaithful twice! Its hard. I love women too much. It's difficult but you have to resist it if you really love your partner, you know?
2006-06-29 02:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by hermosa 2 · 6⤊ 4⤋
That's why I've given up on compulsory monogamy. I've been in open relationships for the last 5 years and it has been fab. No guilt no whinging no secrets no pretending not to be tempted. It's just you and your partner and the arrangement you create. And if other people don't like it, f*ck em. Human beings were clearly not meant to be exclusively monogamous since most of us can't make it work. Instead of torturing ourselves over something most of us can't do, why not create systems and arrangements that do work? I really don't think that suffering to prove you love someone is a valuable or positive arrangement.
2006-06-29 09:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never really found it that difficult to remain faithful. I always think how will she feel if she finds out and is this relationship something I want to lose over a one night stand. That stops me.
2006-06-29 03:27:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am always faithful. Whoever I am with is faithful to me. I hate cheaters. If you want somebody else then break up with the person your with first, easy as that. You are only being self-centered and hurtful if you lie.
2006-06-29 09:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isnt hard for me. Its all in your mind. Do you want to be faithful?
2006-06-29 02:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by jecruz@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No harm in looking but I would never touch while I was in a relationship.
2006-06-29 03:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by LFW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not
if they were with the person who is meant to be
2006-06-29 02:26:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋