what will be your feelings, left in you for sex by the time you get married may be 5-6 years down the line. Because during 5-6 years you may have lived and enjoyed your sex life with many partners. What would be your enjoyment level in sex with your husband/wife after marriage. please explain seriously.
2006-06-29 02:08:32 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i lost mine at 15, and really regret it... i mean, i was WAY too young, and i was intimidated and scared he would leave me, and of course, he did in about 5 months...
i wish i had waited...
2006-06-29 02:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Losing Virginity Before Marriage
2016-10-29 08:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you talk of "right", what is your standard? If you are a Christian, have you read the Ten Commandments? Or any religious scripture which says it is right to lose virginity before marriage? The answer is an emphatic NO. This is not a popularity contest or a democratic process where the majority vote wins. Even if a million people say that a wrong thing is right, it still remains wrong. For your information I lost my virginity at age 25 after i married my lovely wife. We both have no regrets.
2006-07-08 08:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by StraightDrive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, there is nothing wrong with losing your virginity before marriage. You'd rather have some prior experience then none at all. The way I see it is like this, you keep thinking that it's wrong to have sex before you get married, but what if the person you fall in love with has had sexual realtionships with others, are you going to let that stop you from getting married? It doesn't matter if you were/are a virgin. You never regret things you've done in your life.
2006-07-12 08:12:55 · answer #4 · answered by UnKnOwN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know what you are missing it really isn't a big deal. Once you start and realize you like it, you will most likely include that as a part of every relationship you are in.
Another thought...If you "save yourself" for that someone special, it will make them feel really special.
On another note, if you don't do it before marriage, you may get curious and want to experiment on the side after marriage.
Overall, the Bible does say that it is a sin to have sex outside of marriage (I am not sure about other religions). Of course this might not be a factor in your decision at all.
2006-06-29 02:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by moose_skinner 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i was 15. i wouldn't change that. i wouldn't change my past at all. even the bad things cause i wouldn't be where i am now at this wonderful point in my life if i hadn't made some of the decisions i did, and i'm only 22 now.i have been with different men of all different color, size, shape,and whatever, but sex with your spuose is always special and pleasure-filled every time. As long as you are happy with yourself and life and with the right person it will never matter how many people you have been with or any details about them. Just be safe about sex and know a women can always get pregnant, not to mention the std's out there.
2006-06-29 03:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by i.might.b.crazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not right but, then you can't also help it if you're deeply in love with someone and end up having sex before marriage crosses your mind. I lost mine when I was 17yrs. I think you wouldn't be able to determine whether you'd have a good level of sex by the time you're married. That depends on how you and that other person feel about each other and how deeply you're in love.
2006-07-06 11:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are a religous person you would know that the bible teaches that it is wrong to have sex before marriage, however there are very few now days that wait that long. I think the way you will feel about sex depends on the circumstances in which you lost your virginity in the first place. If it was a good experiance, then you should enjoy sex all the more.
2006-07-12 11:45:09 · answer #8 · answered by smoke 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lost mine at 15, two months from 16. I don't regret it because I was ready. Now that I am married to my soulmate in a way I wish I had waited because we both know how special it would have been to give ourselves to each other on our wedding night. However, I don't know that we would have the AMAZING sex we have now if it weren't for those past expieriences. I've always been under the impression that it's the connection you share with your partner that makes it good or not.
2006-06-29 05:15:16 · answer #9 · answered by hisredhead 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lost my virginity when I was 19. In today's society, it's not easy finding a woman who is a virgin before marriage. Whether or not that is right depends on your own code of ethics. I wanted it to be with someone I had strong feelings for. My first was also my first boyfriend. We met and dated when we were 15. My parents and I moved out of state when I was 16 and after I graduated high school, I moved back to my home town. At 18, I got in touch again with my high school sweetheart. We still had feelings for each other and at 19 we acted upon them. I honestly thought he was going to be the one. It turns out he wasn't but I have never regretted that my first time was with someone I loved and trusted. Losing your virginity doesn't give you license to have sex all the time so that 5 or 6 years down the road married sex is no big deal. Listen, whether you have sex a lot or hardly at all after losing your virginity, there's a difference between enjoying sex and loving sex. Sex isn't just about how your body feels. It's intimacy on many levels. Married sex should be better because it should be with someone who's lived with you during your period and you're at your worst. Someone who has seen you with the flu, seen you give birth, seen your body after said birth. Intimacy combined with sexual desire equals a loving sexual relationship that goes beyond enjoying sex. It's not the number of times you've had sex after loss of virginity that ruins enjoyment in the marriage bed, its lack of inimacy.
2006-07-10 12:45:00 · answer #10 · answered by Kim N 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The Lord instructs us to not have sex before marriage, even though I did at a very young age and with more than one different people, but we arent going to go there. I do not judge, but I do know that saving your virginity for marriage causes numerous blessings and much more fulfillment and satisfaction between the spouses.
2006-06-29 02:16:45 · answer #11 · answered by lacruzfamilia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋