2006-06-29 01:51:44 · 34 answers · asked by To Ell and Back 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That would be a bad move. Imagine what you'd feel like if it was the other way round!
2006-06-29 01:54:08 · answer #1 · answered by Les-Paul 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really consider this guy your friend, you're better off finding someone else to date. If this guy's is just an acquaintace that you're won't be seeing, the right thing to do in my opinion is to just take her to Starbucks for now, and make her laugh for 30 minutes or so while she sips on her favorite drink. Until her divorce is final, that's all she gets. You don't want to be known as the asshole who tried to snatch this guys wife, if they get back together, do you? And by all means, hustle other women! You may like this girl, but it's a long shot! Plus she'll need at least a year's healing time before she can be stable enough to look for new relationships. Good Luck!
2006-06-29 13:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by Don Ricardo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think you should ask her out on a date at all. I think it is much more important for you to be there for your "friend", though you cannot be much of a friend if all you are thinking about is the chance to date his wife and possibly get with her.
If you value that friendship at all, it would be a really bad move because he is going to resent you for it. There are plenty of other women, I say find one of them.
2006-06-29 01:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by Raistliin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/Jotgr
Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-30 15:50:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has any man taken fire in his bossom without getting burnt?Who is sure u did not contribute to their separation/ divorce? Go and get married to ur own wife. u are tresspassing and u gotta pay the price sooner or later if u do dat.
Leave your friends wife alone.
Why not try your best for their reconciliation and show them love, maybe dat will go a long way for their reconciliation .
Thanks.
2006-06-29 02:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by Bestoil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forever! He's your friend! Now if she was just a girlfriend, "man-law" says 2 weeks. Ex-wife is definitely taboo. No woman is worth losing a friend over.
2006-06-29 02:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by extra_37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a true friend, you should think that is more important than getting jiggy with his ex wife and forget all about it.
If you don't value his friendship at all... well it's up to you. If you ask her, I seriously doubt you will be his friend any more.
2006-06-29 06:46:28 · answer #7 · answered by dashabout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. Don't do it, man! If you want to keep him as your friend, don't even communicate with her. He may still have feelings for her, and it would destroy him to find out. Trust me, I know what I'm talking about. Besides, you should never want anyones "seconds". There's plenty of fish in the sea, go out there and start fishing!
2006-06-29 02:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by U'Nique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he a true friend...? Then don't do it...
If not and you don't care about him, then wait at least 6 months to one year for things to settle down...
Most people need some time along to find themselves again.
I would suggest to be her friend first...
2006-06-29 01:57:38 · answer #9 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some friend you are, if the woman as any sense she would avoid you like the plague you nerd, get a life and a lady of your own
2006-06-29 02:22:56 · answer #10 · answered by mams brown eyed gel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait?
2006-06-29 01:54:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋