My husband and i have lived like roomates for almost 7 years....within the first 2 years i tried like he!! to keep somthing like this from happening, eventually i adapted to the emotional abandonment, toughined up and just delt with it. We're trying to repair whats been damaged, the more he apoligizes for beeing so heartless....the more i realize how much he really didnt care. He tells me all the time to "forget the past"
He only wanted to try to start fixing things between us when he saw me laughing with another guy.....im was enjoying the time i had with him (my friend).
He got very mentally abusive for about a solid year.....and i dont know if i have the energy for this relationship anymore.
2006-06-29 01:13:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi luckey - It's a good think you never met me or you would have wanted to leave your husband a long time ago.
Your husband does not know that I am looking at you and thinking that you should be mine. He is nothing but rat scum and should be happy to clean up after you.
We could keep him as the Tidy Bowl man after you ditch the rat and discover with me the true meaning of life.
Make sure you keep the kids so we can squeeze the financial daylights out of him in court.
Start now , taking every bit of gold and solid financial asset you can . Demand high priced jewels for forgiveness.
We need to ruin this man just like he has ruined you.
Together we can put this sucker so far into that toilet bowl that no one will even want to save him.
DIVORCE IS YOUR ONLY OPTION but 1st you must accuse him of every rotton thing under the sun. For at least two years you must treat him like dirt . Make his life so miserable that he will want the divorce. Abuse him five times worce than you were abused. Repay him for every evil deed he has done and SHOW NO MERCY.
When he is down groveling for forgiveness - KICK HIM AS HARD AS YOU CAN and again and again.
Make this man feel like the loser he is OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN !
Do this for every woman in the world that has been abused by a man - KICK AND KICK HARDER right in the groin till there is no where for him to turn but to run out that door.
When you are done , I'll be here waiting for you with open arms .
SATAN
2006-06-29 01:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
ill tell you what i learned from my experience,my husband and i have been married for 10 years now,the first 5 were horrible..he cheated on me all the time,I was mentally abused all the time told i was just a baby machine and my opinions did not count etc........ I got so fed up and he would always say ill change i promise.So I would stick around and nothing changed about 4 years in I told him forget it I am done there is no more left for me to give...we have 2 children and he knew I was staying because I didn't want the kids to come from a broken home,He also realized when i said i was done I was not joking... So he decided to shut his mouth and start showing me he was changing.and he was doing great,but I was to scared he ws only doing this to make me come back home.but eventually I gave in and to my suprise he really had changed and the last 5 years have been nothing but PURE BLISS it has been amazing he realized what he was doing and says he was soooo stupid what the hell was he thinking... I know people will tell you men can't change,once a dog always a dog,etc.........But I have proof in my life they can sometimes it just takes something dramatic to open there eyes,and I am sure when he seen you can be very happy even when he is not around it probably shocked him and maybe he has realized he has been wrong and will change for you...
I wish you all the best in life and I hope this will help somewhat.
2006-06-29 01:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by guzmantear25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you like 5? Yahoo answer guidelines do not permit anyone under 13 to have an account. If you are just illiterate than I will answer your question by saying you shouldn't stick with someone if you don't truly love them. So if need be a divorce would be the best solution to a failing marriage.
2016-03-26 21:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you have already answered this question yourself. If you do not have the energy for this relationship, because marriage requires a great deal of it, then perhaps you are indeed in the wrong situation. But, this is something you must determine...Here's the real question: Do I really LOVE this man or am I just afraid of being alone?"
2006-06-29 01:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by tstewart50 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words.... Marriage counseling... otherwise, divorce is the only thing left....
Either way, and trust me when I tell you, life is too short to be unhappy... If you aren't happy, do something about it. Time is a valuable thing, and limited....
2006-06-29 01:18:36 · answer #5 · answered by I Have Questions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce I would say if you have a better time with someone else..
2006-06-29 01:42:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS OVER BETWEEN YOU TWO. GET OUT AND START A NEW LIFE.
2006-06-29 01:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't think you can help to fix the realtionship then move on and be happy
2006-06-29 01:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by mimismom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both need to get into therapy if the marriage is to be saved... do it now....
2006-06-29 01:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me you are answering your own question
2006-06-29 02:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by â?¥ â?ª â?ªâ?ª Jackie â?ª â?ªâ?ª â?¥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋