Why on earth am i stuggeling so much to get child grant from the father of my daughter? Why is he so thick and selfish and spends more money on brandy?
Why can't he just accept his responsiblity?
He is such a loser.
He's is 31 years old but I know 16year olds that is more responsible than him!!
I wish he would die!
That would make my life so much easier.
2006-06-29 01:11:07 · 9 answers · asked by dremafreytal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i don't have an answer for why he is like that. it is a real shame and his loss. however, he is your child's father and some day that will be important to her so even tho his dying would benefit you= at least you think it would- it would be detrimental to your daughter
2006-06-29 01:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by ladyofthehollow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
you are the one who chose him for the thing you did.
It is a part of your mistake also.
You can not blame him for all.
If you cant support him then u shud have married to him and then opted for kid.Now that you are alone and he is responsible, dont just stand there blaming him and spoil the kids life, and do something yourself instead of depending on him.He has proved he is a lousy bastard, son of a *****, dont let that happen to ur kid.
2006-06-29 08:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by boom9849 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know whay you are struggling. You used other words that describes pain over a long period of time. Be proactive. Get something done ahead of time before it has gone too far.
2006-06-29 08:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by ipoddironeus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical male shirking their responsibilities.I raised my two girls for over 10 years without a penny from their father.The only thing they had to do without is a holiday.I always had them immaculately dressed,it was more of a challenge,but i was glad to be free of that jerk.
2006-06-29 08:29:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will come to his sense eventually, it may not be for years though, when his child is grown and wants nothing to do with him.
He will regret his actions.
Good luck with raising your child, there are men out there willing to help.
2006-06-29 08:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by Raistlin H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are venting more than you are asking a question and I guess that is understandable. Get the law after him if you can.
2006-06-29 08:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by peggy j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make him pay child support. Speak to your lawyer about that.
2006-06-29 08:18:30 · answer #7 · answered by MedStudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might shoul have done a better job of selecting a sperm donor.
2006-06-29 08:18:32 · answer #8 · answered by wild1handy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like he might be an alcoholic... they are self centered and selfish... i hope he grows up- he might not
2006-06-29 08:16:19 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋