Why are all the sweet "I love You Sweetheart/ Kiss" messages during courtship replaced by "Busy at work, don't disturb, will call later" after marriage?
2006-06-29 00:52:58 · 8 answers · asked by MintyMint 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because we're no longer trying to convince the other person that we're worthy of being married to. I think once people are married, we take each other for granted and those little declarations of love fall by the wayside. It's one of those sad truths.
2006-06-29 00:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by jada_riab 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever wanted a new car, seen it in the show room, wondered if you could afford it, dreamed about it and eventually bought it, only to have the new wear off. Unfortunately marriage is sometimes like that. It is very important to keep the "home fires burning" You can do that by being a little more sensitive to the needs and desires of your spouse, and doling those little things that will go a long way in keeping marital bliss from becoming martial arts.
2006-06-29 08:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by loufedalis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What else has stopped?
If you feel any less attracted to your mate at any time during the relationship than when you first met, it is the beginning of the end.
2006-06-29 10:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by Nick R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They weren't replaced by me!!! My wife is the one who says I'm busy when she complains about sitting around watching tv
2006-06-29 16:22:51 · answer #4 · answered by uniroyalfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you can fall out of love.
2006-06-29 07:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by Ellie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the poor guy is really busy at work.stop testing his love.he is working harder to keep u happier.
2006-06-29 08:15:07 · answer #6 · answered by natasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because the honeymoon is over now you are living real life
2006-06-29 07:58:23 · answer #7 · answered by mimismom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because people take it for granted. dam shame too.
2006-06-29 09:51:19 · answer #8 · answered by chevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋