Me and my friend have been friends elementary (9 years) and I thnik now she's using me.She's always on the computer and she treats me like dog ****.Help!!!
2006-06-29 00:41:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you need to tell your friend how she is making you feel. besides being on the computer, how is it that she makes you feel like you are being treated poorly. what she is doing may not be on purpose. sometimes people do or say things unthinkingly or because it is what they are used to having done to them and it becomes 2nd nature .
after speaking with her- if she does the ugliness again- at that moment say- when this happens, it makes me feel like such and such. after pointing out a good example of the behavior you do not like and she continues to do it- terminate the friendship. say. ya know i really like you alot as a friend but i cannot tolerate you treating me this way. good luck, best wishes and no hard feelings but cya later
2006-06-29 00:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by ladyofthehollow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you notice signs like this and you are assuming that you are being used by her then truth is she really is using you. You already know the answer, comfront her and let her know that you do not appriciate this especially since you two have been best friends for 9 years and that she shouldn't be using you and treating you in a very inappropriate way. That is just not what friends do.
2006-06-29 07:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by MedStudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the 9 years dont absolutely mean that you should make this a friendship for a lifetime if it is not healthy for you! You should be yourself and be confident!!Dont let her treat you like this. You should be independent and show her that you are an individual that can make it on her own. Find fun things to do and make more friends.. If she is truly a friend she will realise her mistake and apologise. If not then just move on!
2006-06-29 07:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends are meant to be for each other.friendship is a two way road not a one way road.if u dont feel comfortable with this friendship tell her how u feel and get along with ur life.u worth much more than being used by ur best friend.trust me once u straightened this up u will find urself a better friends who will appreciate more
2006-06-29 10:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by saru_lp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, strange if that should be friendship. Leave her some time alon without talking to her. don't break completely the contact. check how she's reacting and find out why she treats you like dog....
2006-06-29 07:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by Tigercub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you dont like the way your allowing yourself to be treated...kill the relationship and move on.
2006-06-29 07:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so stand up for urself if u dont like the way she treats u.
2006-06-29 09:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur friend is that bad
leave her
u can get many more good friends
be careful before choosing a friend
2006-06-29 07:51:36 · answer #8 · answered by good_boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slowly become too busy for her...eventually you will both move on and be happier.
2006-06-29 07:44:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not your friend if she treat you like a dog.cut her off. you do not need her.
2006-06-29 07:45:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋