He doesn't even know I'm alive ! But I can't help thinking about him!
2006-06-29 00:40:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
It's called lust. Probably one of the things that attracts you is that you feel you can't "get him". Remember you can't always get what you want. Try to think of the reason why you feel obsessed with him. He's probably not all that. It happens to everyone at least once. Focus your attention on someone with whom there is a mutual attraction.
2006-06-29 01:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy looking at him. Fantasize about being with him. Enjoy your thinking about him.
If that is all you think about, to the exclusion of other, more important stuff, like eating and friends, then realize you have more than just an obsession over a man.
To counteract this OBSESSION, go find something to eat. Specifically some low fat meat like chicken, or other protein if you are a vegetarian, and a bit of carbohydrate. While an apple would be ideal, you can go for a cracker or a single cookie. Also if you have peanuts or almonds on hand (and are not allergic) eat them up. They are protein and good fat.
Don't eat a lot of this though. A snack is about one ounce of protein and a small amount of carb if you are a woman. Double that if you are a man. Don't worry about the amount of nuts.
Eat this instead of thinking about that man for a while. Chew slow and enjoy. Then drink 8 oz of water and do something that raises your heartbeat for a while, even just breathing in and out. Laughing is the best for this. Call a friend and tell them a really funny joke.
2006-06-29 08:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by Pegasus90 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay busy. Hang out with friends and go out a lot to have fun.Read,
Maybe date someone. Maybe see if he wants to hang out with you or with you and your friends and then at least hell know your alive. Worst is he could say is no but he may start thinking of you too. Best wishes.
2006-06-29 07:51:25 · answer #3 · answered by smilingbluelady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you approach him and flirt for a full month, day-by-day (so he can know you are alive), ignore him as if he doesn't exist for two to three months, and then find a new man to make him jealous. Always got me what I wanted.
2006-06-29 07:50:19 · answer #4 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find your own life.....there is a life beyond, that dosen't have to include a man. Have a hunch any older woman here would encourage you to stop worrying about men...they are always trouble, are rather worthless, and make your life hell.No, I am not lesbian, I am married ......and happy..just recognize what women give up for men. It is all rather pointless.
2006-06-29 14:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by Tracey M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
obsess over a woman
2006-06-29 07:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try, Just Try one or two times to be obsessed with your self.
See how it feels, and then try again.
Remember you are more important then him. You deserve to treat yourself and respect yourself more. Men are a dime a dozen, and their easier. They have to have it.
"WE Don't".
Good Luck,
2006-06-29 07:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by CAROL D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋