What should Ido? I ask him to stop but he won't.
2006-06-29 00:16:56 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Do not "ASK"! TELL that stupid bastard to stop! He is not a boyfriend of any kind to you if he does not repect your authority, especially over YOUR body! I am sory that he is selfish to put you and your child at risk. Since you are pregnant, you are practicly helpless. Kick and slap him in any possible way you can. Do not think about your love for him right then, because if he is doing this, there is no love from him to you. After getting him off, call the authorities and dump the something-I will-not-say. He's going to beg for you back, but if he violated you this much, I would not take him back. I know you probably don't want your child growing up with these strangers from clinics around all the time, but it may be for the best.
E-mail me if you need advice from me, I am deeply saddened by this insecure man.
And definately congrats on your little Angel.
2006-06-29 00:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run now, before you have a baby. This relationship will only get worse with time. Been there done that. Leave. It will hurt for a while, but you will move on. If you stay he may one day abuse your child as well as you. Go to your parents, the police somewhere that you can be safe. He IS abusing you.
2006-06-29 02:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by mar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get out of this relationship before he kills you.. He obviously doesn't love you .. Now it's not only you that you have to worry about you a child in you to worry about as well.Get help girl & fast before it's too late..Go with a family member or a friend or just straight to the police.. Try this> www.crimevictims.gov
If you need more advice email me.. I was abuse too...
2006-06-29 00:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by Tinkerbell24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave like right now.Call the police even if he is your boyfriend no means NO. Go to your parents or find some where you can stay.I hope you and your boyfriend do leave together.I don't understand why would someone you love and loves you would do something so horrible.I hope you leave for the good of you and your unborn child.I wish you good luck and much hope all goes well.
2006-06-29 02:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter if he is your boyfriend or if you had willing sex before...if he trys to have sex with you an you dont want it..it is then classified as rape.. first off you need to avoid him at all costs..second off call the police an tell them what is happeneing they will help you.. if you dont tell the police what is going on then it will justr keep happening..so if you want to stop it that is how you should go about doing that..also you need to decide if your going to keep the baby..you should go to plan parenthood to prepare you..good luck an congrats
2006-06-29 00:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by samantha1989 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if RAPE?tell him if he wont stop then you will inform the police.. or if its not rape, i mean if he just want to have sex with you then you worried about it because you are pregnant, i tell you sex during pregnancy is ok as long as you are comfortable. It depends on you maybe that kind of rape you wanted to shout "rape... rape... rape... repeat.. "ehehe..joke! but what i mean is.. that's your bf, do you like what he is doing or not? if not.. then tell the police.
2006-06-29 00:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by icon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety, if you feel you are being raped tell the police. how do you have time to ask us? is he raping you next to a laptop?
I just find it hard that you can ask us what to do. So you aleady know it is wrong. Do not ask us, tell the police.
2006-06-29 00:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by mike67333 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but many of the others are right. YOU MUST GET AWAY FROM HIM. If he cared for you he would respect your decision to not do this to you. He does not have your best interest at heart. Please, Please, Please get away from him. Talk to someone you can trust that can help you. Your parents, a trusted teacher, tell the cops, just get help from someone close. If he is doing this to you things could escalate out of your control and you should not put yourself in any more danger.
2006-06-29 00:49:18 · answer #8 · answered by vahrens71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and get a restraning order aginst him. Turst me if you keep letting it happen it will cause mental problems when you get older.
2006-06-29 00:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's raping you call the police. it doesn't matter if he's your boyfriend, it's your body and you can say no to whomever you want to. If he's putting pressure on your stomach he could hurt your baby.
2006-06-29 00:21:55 · answer #10 · answered by millancad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋