i have a close friend- very close... but he, i know he loves me. i dont know what 2do. i dont wanna break our friendship... what will i do now? i pretend i dont know his feeling... if he tells me that, our friendship will break... what i do now?
2006-06-28 23:40:00 · 10 answers · asked by minh_hien 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Lead the convo to where you say, "i don't understand how a man and a woman who are only good friends, just up and spoil a great friendship by one of them saying i love you, THAT would freak me out and i would have to end the friendship"
If he has any brains at all, he'll now know how you feel about this issue and keep his mouth shut if he values your friendship
2006-06-28 23:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine25 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally i think it is not that bad to have a relationship with someone who used to be ur best friend because you know you can trust him and you already know a lot things about his personality.. Now i think you should talk to him but not too directly because you may scare him.. Try to see if he really loves you as a girl /love/ gf or if he just cares for you and loves you as a friend.. Then maybe you could say it in a funny way like" imagine if we were a couple!!" and say what you think the relationship would be.. Try not tomake him feel uncomfortable because remember: if your thoughts that he likes you r true then he will be hurt. Try to say it in a cute funny loving way so he will not take you wrong and he will get the msg that u realised his feelings about u..
On the other hand did you REALLY think about being with him ? (if u dont have any other relationship of course) The guy may really love you and worth your attention :P
Give it a thought ;P
Good luck and i hope everything goes fine with you.. =)
2006-06-29 00:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the friendship is already finished as long as he is looking at u with eyes of love, desire or whatever u call it, so if u feel the same , just try to clear things, talk with him.
2006-06-28 23:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by rivers_of_life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know how he feels about you ..... how do you feel about him??? if you feel the same way .... try it out and if it dont work out in the relationship talk to see how you two are able to be friends if you two cant be friends after then you werent that close much as you think
2006-06-28 23:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by angel_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE BEST WAY TO BREAK A FRIENDSHIP IS TO FALL IN LOVE.
2006-06-28 23:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a conversation telling him how you WOULD feel if something like that happen and how it would most likely ruin your friendship...see what he says.
2006-06-28 23:44:05 · answer #6 · answered by Paige 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not see why you have to break off unless you are married and yeah of course ,but you can still be friends.
2006-06-28 23:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do, and really MUST do, is be upfront and honest with him. Tell him what you think about the way he feels about you. Be kind, but tell him.
2006-06-28 23:44:04 · answer #8 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prepare for the worst and pray for the best..
2006-06-28 23:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth
2006-06-28 23:42:52 · answer #10 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋