2006-06-28 23:22:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dump his a** so quick it would make his head spin...he is writing back and forth so the next step is steppng out on you..if he wrote it he is obviously thinking about it......get out girl while the getting is good
2006-06-29 02:14:46 · answer #1 · answered by â?¥ â?ª â?ªâ?ª Jackie â?ª â?ªâ?ª â?¥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are suspicious enough to be looking thru his stuff, I'm afraid you both have bigger problems....
I often see straying outside a relationship is a symptom of bigger problems between you and him. You shouldn't be invading his privacy. If you feel that insecure and afraid you are losing love in your relationship with him, that's what you need to address with him....not some old emails or text messages you found.
I personally would not care. If he stays, slapping him down with this find will simply rip at the relationship, and if he's leaving, your confrontation will only make it happen sooner.
Good luck. I don't mean to be harsh.
2006-06-28 23:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by Arlene06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is his reason for hiding text messages from her, he doesn't want her to see them? She already knows what she texted to him. Do you mean he was hiding text meassges from you that he received from another girl ? Well why don't you ask what you mean ? Communication is the best way to get answers. It could be a cousin or co-worker. Be careful not to add fuel to the fire, you could wind up getting burned, or burning your bridges behind you and not be able to cross back.
2006-06-29 04:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by the sealer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him why he was hiding something from me, or I would ask him to call the person while I am standing with him and from his reaction I would ask him if he was cheating on me, and I would ask him to show me evidence of his innocence, if they are just messages from a friend there is no need to hide them is there.
2006-06-28 23:32:56 · answer #4 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd confront him, jump his **** and demand to know what's going on and what's the big secret. Either he needs to be man enough to tell me to my face or I'll call the girl myself and we'll just see if she's woman enough to tell me. He will know I will get to the bottom of it and I'll fight him first before I accept just any old answer from him. He done opened a can of worms he'll wish he never would of opened.
2006-06-29 00:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd figure out his log-on and text her to find out the nature of their relationship. There is nothing wrong with looking for this type of thing - everyone feels a little insecure now and then, and the past has taught us to trust no one. I applaud you for keeping your guard up! So find out who this other person is, and then confront him using facts so he cant lie his way out.
2006-07-03 13:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by Coolie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would sit him down and ask him........
WHO WERE WHEN
honest some men's brains are in there balls Hun just ask him out right and if you don't like the answer get rid
i no that sounds harsh but life is to short to cry over a man if they are messing with your brain
respect
shaz
2006-06-29 03:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by sharon B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would first ask what she was giving him that I wasn't and if I couldn't so what he needed I would tell him to go for her if he thinks she could make him happier. I wouldn't want my husband to stay with me if he wanted another women no matter how bad it would kill me. I just want him happy.
2006-06-29 00:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by bfm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there something fishy going on.. i wil jot down the girl no. and investigate.
2006-06-28 23:33:05 · answer #9 · answered by glaze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try to get the phone number and call
2006-06-28 23:39:40 · answer #10 · answered by cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋