He's my childhood friend and my long timed crush. He came to my place one night, again, and had a usual fight with his gf.. I believe i can make him happier, loved and cared if he's with me. But i dont like the friendship to come to an end if i blow this up and it only messes the situation. He sucks when he cries for her, its irritating! And as for his gf, she doesnt deserve to be loved like this, she doesnt deserve my friend. Shall i break them up and continue my plan? Or keep silent until he realizes i can love him more? and yeah right, i suck too!
2006-06-28 22:50:53 · 17 answers · asked by shih 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's not married to his gf, so he's "fair game". So break them up, IF you can. He might only be using you as a shoulder to cry on, and so he might have no true feelings for you. In other words, what you want to do is not wrong, but you might not be able to do it. Did you think of that?
Also, look at his behavior pattern. If he does come to you, and you two have a fight, what if he runs back to his old gf, or someone else?
When people have fights, they should solve them between themselves, or with a marriage counselor.That is, unless they want to have complicated and promiscuous lives.
2006-06-28 23:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by DinDjinn 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Hey Girl! I think you really care for this your friend. To think that he is suffering with this his present gf is very bad. Maybe he doesn't know how to out himself from the relationship. You may just be doing him a favour going for him, besides nobody says it is a crime to obey your instinct.
Don't wait too long. Just help a friend out of his misery.
2006-06-28 22:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by riboden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer. You wrote "yeah right, i suck too!" because you know it would not make you feel good to steal him from his gf. If you are christian remember stealing is a sin, so is coveting. Please remain his friend for your sake not his. A clear conscience is great for a good night sleep.
2006-06-28 22:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by curiousgeorge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,doing what is right is that u shud wait a while.let him get over her.if u really love him and the other girl is not right 4 him then he will eventually turn his back 2 her.but be ready 4 a scufle wid his gf. after that. i wish u luck!!!!!!!!
2006-06-28 22:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by trustadevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this ***** is playing your friend wrong then its your duty to step in!!! but if u don't wanna face the problem by stealing him from this ***** then just wait in a dark corner for her to come home and take that ***** out permanently. then u can move in and do this guy right.
2006-06-28 22:55:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
y you have to stole him...can't you be a friend and just a plain friend for him now...if they have some misunderstandings let them fix those and listen to him ef needed and do some advises..he will not feel like that if he didn't love his gf...
do you think that you will be able to have that love back if you gonna tell him?
2006-06-28 22:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by angelsiege11 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just shut up
love is not snatching or taking from someone.Hve good decent relatonships ok
If you like him and know that he is going to care about you.Treat him well . If he likes you he will come otherwise enjoy life
2006-06-28 22:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by sm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u are happy that way go for it, but remember someday u will be older and u will regret all the evil u did while u were young, God always makes justice.
2006-06-28 22:53:45 · answer #8 · answered by rivers_of_life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!!!!!!
this is wrong! i know you think that what you are doing is right, but it isn't. if the relationship really isn't meant to work, that's fate and you should let it work out on it's own. don't interfere! but if they break up, make your move, coz' everyone needs someone special in this life you know!
2006-06-28 22:57:54 · answer #9 · answered by nikplowman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
young lady if you have to steal to have it it ain't worth it no matter how well you s#*k and if he has been around you that long you ain't his type get a life happy day
2006-06-28 22:57:00 · answer #10 · answered by Charles W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋