I have an 11 year old son with me. I want to be with someone, but I dont want to repeat any mistakes I made.
2006-06-28 22:28:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you said that you're not in a good shape right?!...better try to cope and move alone with your son...enjoy those cuming days with him...and maybe in time you'll be able to find sum1 you can really rely and trust...just don't lose hope...mistakes done 1nce can be change...unless you haven't learn anything from the past....
2006-06-28 22:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by angelsiege11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a bad way emotionally then you are not in the right place to start a new relationship. You need to take some time and grieve for the loss of your relationship and become emotionally strong again before you are ready to date. You may want to be with someone because that is what you are used to rather than being with someone because you love them. It's a really sad situation for you, but there is light at the end of the tunnel, see it as a new start and think positively, your past is behind you and you can look to the future. Give yourself some time and space, throw yourself into your career and looking after your son, you will be surprised how quickly you start to heal. Good luck.
2006-06-29 06:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that you are recently divorced and are in bad shape. Well before you get into another relationship you need to heal from the one you just got out of. You don't want to jump from the frying pan into the fire. Divorce isn't easy and you do get lonely. But don't look for some one else to heal your broken heart you need to do that yourself. Take time to heal, then look for some one. Look for some one the opposite to what you all ready had.
2006-06-29 05:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by brighteyes62301 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You yourself said you are in bad shape. So the last thing you need right now is boyfriend drama. Heal from the divorce. Get happy again, and start enjoying life with your child. If love is ment to happen again, it will find you. But first you need to get ok with being single and learn how to depend on yourself. Other things will come with time.
2006-06-29 05:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in a hurry to find someone...take time to spend with your son, he needs you, and you need him. Get into shape, feel good about yourself, love yourself and your son..and the right person will enter your life that loves you for who you are and your son. It takes time to heal for both you and your son.
2006-06-29 07:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by dancinglights 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take the time to getting to feel like your old self.Everyone makes mistakes and that is okay as long as you learn from them.When you feel like you can handle it,go out and meet people.Do not settle on the first one who pays you any attention.Take your time and enjoy yourself.
2006-06-29 06:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you're in the healing process, it's ok to casually date. Do not get into another relationship until you are ready to do so. There are plenty out there who would like to date.
2006-06-29 07:39:24 · answer #7 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋