How come my girlfriend always tells me that she loves me more?
I mean,I love her juss as much,but she won't believe me.It's kind of annoying..
How come I want to love her,but I also want to get rid of her?I mean,I feel miserable & hurt,but deep down,I'm in love with her.It's making me sick.
Please Help.
What should I do?
2006-06-28 22:22:39 · 9 answers · asked by inurface012391 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she's insecure and probably can detect that you may not really want to be with her.....be honest with her...
2006-06-28 22:25:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to have doubts when you're still young and in a relationship. You sometimes see all around you what you're missing and deep down in you [regardless of how much you care about someone] you want a piece of all of the rest of it.
You first need to be honest with yourself.
Think about what you really want.
Think about how happy you /really/ are with this girl.
Think about all that you're missing and if your relationship with her is worth it.
Then you need to talk with her...
If the relationship takes more from you than gives back to you, you should end it. It's not fair to hurt yourself OR her by not being honest.
2006-06-28 22:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by xxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you do love her, but maybe because she keeps asking for this attention, and is worried that you really dont love her as much as she loves you. ya'll could be...sufficating each other, to much attention for you, but not enough for her. I dont know of a better way to put it. Only say you love her if you really and truly mean it, and if you do(really and seriously mean it), sit her down and tell her, hoenstly and openly how much you really care for her. tell her you dont understand why she keeps saying that "she loves you more" just be honest about it, and becarefull...because love isn't something to just throw around.
*good luck!!*
2006-06-29 04:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by Sammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and tell her how u fell. sometimes when someone says i love u more they could be messing around but knows that the person really does love them and wants the other person to know that they love u to alot
2006-06-28 23:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by blubabi2013 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get serious and discuss this with her. I think you should have enough care as to talk to her before you get on answers and ask the world.
2006-06-28 22:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, since communication is the main essence of a relationship, then i guess you should talk to her about it.
2006-06-28 22:29:49 · answer #6 · answered by voice.from.above 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to grow up and stop whining and being a little childish
2006-06-28 22:26:00 · answer #7 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are more to it than meets the eye. You need to dump her.
2006-06-28 22:25:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not sure you want to stay with her, just dump her. BTW.. she's lucky to have a hot guy like you...damnit!
2006-06-28 23:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by Betsy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋