need to be controlling and be in control of all situations? Why they can't rely on anyone else to do something for them?
2006-06-28 22:21:03 · 17 answers · asked by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
cziizi is soooooooo right. I don't trust someone to help me because people either let me down or help me the way they see right, not the way I see right...and they do it with good intentions, they can't be blamed at all.
2006-06-28 22:25:36 · answer #1 · answered by rinah 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Being controlling is different to being independant.
I do not have to rely on anybody for anything because I am independant, that doesn't make me controlling. I'm stubborn yes, but that is because I do not doubt my own mind, I am confident enough to trust myself. I can't say it's always been like that but independance isn't controlling.
Controlling somebody is when they "stop" you being a free spirit, them doubting your word or capabilities. Selfish to not consider the others thoughts so they control them.
A BIG difference!!
2006-06-29 05:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by WW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Overconfident of themselves, which will continue till they discover its limitations in a society bound by the rule of interdependence which is its very foundation.
2006-06-29 05:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they might feel that no one else can do it right. my father was, is, and will always be like that. if youre not doing it his way youre not doing it right.
theres nothin you can really do. i say avoid them at all costs. ESPECIALLY when it comes to relationships. he/she shows even asign of being controlling....ditch them. or else ill see you on Maury.
2006-06-29 05:25:45 · answer #4 · answered by johnny_zondo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the human brain is a wonderful thing,,,
unfortunately it goes too far and wont let go
of controlling every little detail
2006-06-29 07:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by use 2b light 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they think that others may not pay full attention as much as themselves would to the issue!
2006-06-29 06:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because they view everything they do as VVVVVV important. So they dont want to or simply cant trust others. Its basic lack of trust for others.
2006-06-29 05:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by amazon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i feel like it because, not to boast, but sadly not many people are as capable as i...
not saying im a genius, but just usually one of the best at what i do
if you want it done right, DO IT YOURSELF!
2006-06-29 05:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they can't cope with the feelings insecurity that they would experience if they would let someone else in charge
2006-06-29 05:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by Deep Thought 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THEY RELIE ON THEM SELVES BECAUSE THEY THINK THEY R DOING SOMETHING WRONG OR CAUSED SOMETHING TO HAPPEN OR THEY DID
2006-06-29 05:54:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋