I am a fairly quiet person. It takes me a while to warm up to people. Sometimes people take this as standoffish or snobby. Is there any way to make people see I'm not a bad person and that it just takes a while for me to get to know them ?
2006-06-28 22:11:54 · 9 answers · asked by Vidra 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I can understand what you mean. I have the same problem.People think that I am snob and when they talk to me they change their mind. You could make some humor or explain them that you need your time. In advance they will understand that you have a nice personality!
2006-06-28 22:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. The only way I can think of is just to be nice. When someone says something to me, I try to speak more than just one word answers. They eventually catch on that your just shy/quiet. If they don't, I wouldn't worry about them. Helping people is a good way to be friendly too.
2006-06-29 05:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by Tigga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are the ones with the problem and not you. I am sorry you are suffering in this way I guess you could try to go out of your comfort zone a sign of goo d faith.
2006-06-29 06:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If any body like u he also understand your nature. Dont take tenion. All the people in this world are not similar.
2006-06-29 05:19:08 · answer #4 · answered by Smarti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just wave hello to people and they would think better of you.
2006-06-29 05:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dont worry dost.....
if someone dont accept u as u r... and think by seeing things... he is a poor person.... u better pray tht could start see by soul....
greets
2006-06-29 05:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by naina_k_s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probaly think that since you don't smile at them u don't like them.
2006-07-01 01:33:46 · answer #7 · answered by purplecoriey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
put on a smile?
2006-06-29 05:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by ariele 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them think wat they wan y bother.. if it makes u feel better can try smiling...
2006-06-29 05:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by gwen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋